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How to Breastfeed Discreetly in Public

By Christie Silvers, published Jun 01, 2007
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Breastfeeding in public has been a hot topic, that has been debated to the extremes of insulting those of us who do breastfeed in public, for many years. While I feel that every breastfeeding mother has the right to feed their hungry child anywhere and anytime that the need arises, many of us are uncomfortable baring too much breast in public and need tips on breastfeeding as discreetly as our infant will allow, in public. And YES, it is up to the infant when it comes to how discreet a breastfeeding mother can be in public. Here are a few tips for those breastfeeding mothers who would like to learn a little more about breastfeeding discreetly in public.

Breastfeeding Tip #1: Practice makes perfect - The best tip that I ever received for breastfeeding discreetly in public was to practice in front of a mirror. This is one of the easiest and most comfortable ways to prepare yourself for breastfeeding in public. Sit in front of a big mirror, large enough to see all of yourself, and breastfeed your infant. Pay close attention the areas of your body that are exposed when you are trying to get ready for the feeding, latching your baby on and while the feeding session is in process. By doing this you will be able to determine if you are comfortable with the amount of skin showing, if you can improve upon your latching technique in order to be a little more effiecient in the speed of it and if you feel comfortable enough to use your techniques in a public setting.

Breastfeeding Tip #2: Breastfeeding Tops - While I never used the shirts made specifically for the breastfeeding mothers, but I have heard great things from the mothers that have used them. Unfortunately, for me these tops were far to expensive when I was a new mother because of how fast the breastfeeding would burn off my extra baby weight. I would have been buying several different sizes in order to have shirts that fit properly. For those mothers who can afford the breastfeeding tops, or don't have a lot of baby weight to lose, I do recommend trying out a couple of the breastfeeding tops. These may be just what you need in order to feel comfortable breastfeeding in public.

How to Breastfeed Discreetly in Public

My youngest daughter when she was 1 month old.

Credit: Christie Silvers

Copyright: Christie Silvers

Takeaways
  • Only nurse where you feel comfortable.
  • Nursing tops are not necessary.
  • NEVER feed your baby in a bathroom.
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I breastfeed in public all the time, and I don't do most of these things... but I still manage to be discreet. Thankfully I'm not a large-breasted woman, and I'm used to wearing loose shirts, so I can remain covered while feeding my child -- provided that she doesn't decide to pop off and expose me to the world. :-P Nice article.

Posted on 06/20/2007 at 7:06:00 AM

 
I must say that when someone judges another woman who might actually have a medical problem that prevents breastfeeding, its not good either. Great article though - it certainly can be done discreetly.

Posted on 06/12/2007 at 11:06:00 AM

 
No kid yet, but I've always wondered if it was possible to be discreet. I usually notice when mothers are breastfeeding their babies.

Posted on 06/05/2007 at 2:06:00 PM

 
How sad it is that thousands of women are buying all the lies that are promoted about natural birth and breastfeeding failures! (referring to the comment on this article "I was never able to breastfeed mine. My milk was sour." THAT'S a new one!) Way too many women are told their baby is too big to come out naturally, or that there was something wrong with them preventing breastfeeding. When a woman starts out motherhood believing there was something flawed with her that prevented birthing vaginally or breastfeeding, it's not good.

Posted on 06/03/2007 at 9:06:00 PM

 
Very good! I think I did all of these with my first (2nd hand cheap nursing shirts). Towards the end of my breastfeeding relationship with her, and the entire time now with my second, I just got her into position, THEN lifted my shirt and got her on. The most that is ever seen is a slight portion of my side. I really don't care what people think. They can see models on magazines waiting in line who are barely covering their nipples and think nothing of it.

Posted on 06/03/2007 at 9:06:00 PM

 
You are absolutely right... never count on a blanket to hide your child's meal ;) It doesn't take long for them to grasp and rip it away! I like the big layered look myself. Breastfeeding bras are best used at home. They are such a pain to hook, unhook, clasp, unclasp, which just draws attention when you are out. Go for a supportive bra with a cup you can flip up and pull back down.

Posted on 06/02/2007 at 6:06:00 PM

 
Very nice tips.

Posted on 06/02/2007 at 1:06:00 PM

 
Great tips! It's a shame women can't just breastfeed with wild abandon anywhere they choose, but one day our culture will eventually catch up with common sense (I hope). I always smile at women whenever I see them nursing their babies in public as a show of support.

Posted on 06/02/2007 at 6:06:00 AM

 
I was never able to breastfeed mine. My milk was sour ;(

Posted on 06/02/2007 at 12:06:00 AM

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