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Oklahoma City Mother Recounts the Death of Her Son

The Story of Gaje Jefferey Florence's Death

By Rosa Hayes, published Jun 03, 2007
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Editor's note: The following is a first-person news account from Associated Content CP Rosa Hayes, who lost her son in an auto accident. Hayes lives in Oklahoma City. NewsOK.com has a full account of the accident.

I was inside of my house working on a project that I was going to have submitted for a company that I work for, when I heard my husband, Brent Florence come inside of the house and shut the screen door behind him.

It was only moments later that I heard someone outside screaming. I felt a chill run down my back and I heard my husband running for the door. The screen door slammed and then a man that I had never saw before, came running into the house as I was running to the door. The man and I nearly knocked each other down. The man asked me if I was the mother to the little boy. I replied by asking what boy he was talking about. He then asked me again, only this time he revised his question by asking if I was the mother to the little boy who got ran over.

I darted passed the man and into my yard. I found my husband knelt down beside something that I really couldn't make out what it was. My husband, Brent Florence, was crying and screaming at the same time. I then seen something red pouring down our driveway and into the street. I walked up to him and then I realized that it was blood that was covering our driveway and that it was our son that was laying there in a fetal position.

I hit my knees and started praying. I felt like my heart was going to explode. My mind went blank and I kept wondering if this was real.

I heard someone on the phone with 911. The guy that was on the phone asked my husband if he was breathing. My husband replied by saying that his pulse was getting weak. I couldn't breath, I couldn't talk, all I could do was scream.

The ambulance arrived a few minutes after along with the Oklahoma City Police Department. The ambulance took our son to the hospital but would not allow us to ride with them. I had my one year old daughter at the time and so I told my husband to go to the hospital. My husband followed them in our car, while I waited for my mother in law to arrive.

Oklahoma City Mother Recounts the Death of Her Son
Date: May 19, 2007
Oklahoma City, OK
United States of America
Oklahoma City Mother Recounts the Death of Her Son

Funeral for Gaje Florence

Credit: Rosa Hayes

Copyright: Rosa Hayes

Takeaways
  • 6-year-old Gaje Jefferey Florence dies after being ran over
  • Donations for the family can be made at any Bank of Oklahoma
  • A mother's worst fear
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No parent, no mother should have to endure the mental and physical pain that goes hand in hand with losing a child. In 2001 I lost my 5 day old twins, Bobby and Kara to sepsis brought on by GBS. This should not have happened and was pure negligence on the part of all doctor's involved my OG/GYN and the pediatrician who allowed my babies to leave the hospital. I sobbed whenreading about what happened to Gaje. There are no words, just complete sorrow that you had to live this nightmare. You are a courageous woman and your son's memory will continue to live on as you persue harsher punishments for those that commit vehicular manslaughter. God Bless You

Posted on 03/21/2008 at 11:03:30 AM

 
@Firoze, your comment made me cry but in a good way. I am glad that so many people have stood behind us. Thank you.

Posted on 03/20/2008 at 11:03:29 PM

 
What a hauntingly tragic tale, simply and beautifully told. You have experienced a parent's worst nightmare, but you have survived. I know that's what you are feeling right now - that you're merely surviving; that your life, as you knew it, is over. Life goes on, however, trust me. I just read your interview that you believe in the spiritual; therefore believe this. Your son is now in a beautiful place, free of worries and tribulations. Tragic as the incident seems to you, your son was taken by God before he was old enough to accumulate any sins. Hence, his place at the side of the Lord is assured. Even now, he may be looking down at you; and he does not want you to mourn any longer. He wants you to be happy and, when the time comes, he will come for you and you will be together for eternity. God bless you.

Posted on 03/20/2008 at 6:03:45 AM

 
Rosa, I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Posted on 03/05/2008 at 9:03:55 AM

 
I am sorry for your loss. My son was 8 when a he died at the hands of a drunk driver driving on a suspended license. I remember the blood in the street to this day. I used to go to sleep every night convering my face with my hands so I would not see the images of his injured body and head. I am sorry for your pain, because I can feel it still myself. But we must go on and in time, like everything we go through we find a place to put in our heart so that we can remember, but carry on for our family that still lives with us. Time heals some of the pain some of the time - the pain just changes as time passes.

Posted on 03/03/2008 at 7:03:39 PM

 
@Diana, Losing a child is the hardest thing that I have ever had to go through. You hear of it happening everyday but you never imagine it happening to you. Thank you for your comment and the only thing that keeps me hanging on is the thought of my other children. No one should ever have to go through this and thanks for sharing your granddaughters story. I am sure that she was such a great child.

Posted on 02/26/2008 at 7:02:53 AM

 
My dear,my heart is hurting now ...for I know the pain you are feeling and have endured .I lost my little granddaughter in2004,she died of injuries ,caused by a doctors neglect.she lived only 6 months ,in that time suffering worse than anyone should ever hurt..she was blind ,she could not swallow or suck a bottle,we had to suction her nose and throat to keep her from aspirating on her fluid .she couldn't even cry,she had a g-tube for feeding ,and she had cerebral palsey from her injury at birth.all of this from the hands of someone not making the correct choice.the choice that was chosen cost us our little angel...I pray for you and your family and I do think you are doing the right thing by sharing ,it does seem to help.just savor the beautiful time you had with your little boy and remember he is still with you always!this helps me through when I think of little Abbigail. God Bless you and yours totally ! .....Diana

Posted on 02/26/2008 at 12:02:13 AM

 
AnnaB, I know that no matter what I say there is nothing that will comfort you during this time. I have been fighting for justice for the voices that can no longer be heard and your son's voice should be heard. No one has the right to take a life and get off with a slap on the wrist. There are so many 'children' that are loss due to crimes that go untouched and it shouldn't be this way. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Posted on 02/13/2008 at 9:02:26 PM

 
I am so sorry that your son died this way. Today is Feb 13 it is my oldest sons birthday today he would of been 19 today. But he was killed by a hit and run driver. It is extremely hard to loose a child. especially because of someone driving that should not of been at all. (the person who killed our son was so drunk that he could not tell the difference between a mailbox a deer and a person. and he is not even being charged with being drunk because of the fact he waited to come forward. also his girlfriend(s) have resorted to making public attacks on us at various times, saying our son should not of been walking even trying to somehow place the blame on us. ) the person who killed our son is supposed to go to court March 3, He has so far not even been in jail at all, we were even told that it is likely he may only get probation if that. I am really sorry that you had to go thru the same type of tragedy that our family has. It is very hard. And very painful. I will keep you in my pr

Posted on 02/13/2008 at 8:02:13 PM

 
I hope soon time will heal your wound. Congrats, although no one should go through such a tragedy be recognized.

Posted on 02/13/2008 at 5:02:57 PM

 
Rosa. I am so sorry for your loss. This is a very well written article on such a sad story. Congratulations on an award well deserved!

Posted on 02/03/2008 at 6:02:47 PM

 
I don't even know what to say. i can't believe that you had to witness this. Most people believe that a child should live a long life and when something like this happens, when you lose a child, it is hard to understand. I feel for you and your family.

Posted on 02/03/2008 at 1:02:49 AM

 
I couldn't even imagine this happening to me. I guess that you probably felt the same way. The death of your son must have been the hardest thing for you to endure. My prayers are with you.

Posted on 02/03/2008 at 1:02:26 AM

 
This is so sad Rosa Hayes, my heart goes out to you over the death of your son.

Posted on 02/03/2008 at 1:02:26 AM

 
Oh Rosa, My heart goes out to you, I wish you didnt ever have to feel the pain of losing a child. Your article is outstanding and a wonderful way to bring recognition to your son. I truly hope your heart heals in time. Bless you.

Posted on 02/02/2008 at 4:02:42 AM

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