How to Recognize a Player

Tips to Recognize Relationship Players

When we are talking about players we are talking about people who play the field when it comes to relationships whether they be male or female. Yeah there are female players too. The vast majority of players make up the male population. In this article I will try to
 give you tips of how to recognize them.

They can be romantic

Players are con artists in a way they resemble romantics cause they can be very sweet and use romantic tactics on the people they are seeing. You can say they are good actors except its not really an act they are very romantic. It comes very natural for them to be romantic cause they are. They don't however wear their hearts on their sleeve like romantics do. Romantics can be hurt where players usually cannot be hurt cause they are not serious about any one relationship.

They are very likable

Its hard not to like them. They can be very persuasive and they normally had many relationships in the past. Even after they are gone you will have fond memories of them.

Players cannot be controlled

If you think you will land a player and make him yours you will be sadly mistaken. If you really start getting serious and demand a commitment from them they will be gone. You will not be able to tie them down. Once you try they will leave.

They can be very convincing

They will tell you that they love you and you only but that is further from the truth. They can convince you that they are faithful and do not cheat. They don't really like getting too close or making commitments. They will try to convince you that every thing is kool and make promises of commitment down the road.

When it comes to commitment

It not that can't make commitments its just that they know they won't be able to keep them. So they refrain from committing. They enjoy playing the field too much. If they were to make a commitment they know they would not be able to keep it. They don't want anyone they have been seeing to think bad of them so they won't allow themselves to be put into that situation.

They love to flirt

 
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It's only natural to love players, they often feels challenging and are really fun to be with. They also have great abilities of leading funny conversations, and knows lots of good stories. And by the way. Players aren't disgusting. It's not like they force you to do something you don't want to. Grow up, and stop being ignorant. NB* I'm referring mostly to check-up-artists, not psychopaths or whatever you girls end up with. One last thing. Look at the headlines. I could made a big bet that the dream guy is; romantic, likable, uncontrollable, determined("convincing") and flirty. In other words(if we just pay attention to the minor headlines in this article), a PLAYER! Conclusion: You all want one! I liked the article by the way. Love the subject. :)

Posted on 05/10/2009 at 3:05:24 PM

Wow, girls. The easiest thing in the world is finding a nice guy that would do anything for you. The only glitch, is that he won't make a self-confident move on you in the bars, and he won't hit on you on the bus or at the mall. You have to realize that to get what you want, you can't expect it'll just fall right into your lap. Everyone you find cute, funny, or has his own sort of style IS DEFINITELY skilled in what he's doing! The best way to find interesting boys are to open guys, start the conversations yourself. Just take initiative before the players target you, because they will. Never give yourself totally over either. If you can bring a challenge, it's definitely a great way to get the person interested. But girls never seem to learn anyways. Personally, I can smell a player or check-up artist just by watching one single approach. You almost can't miss it if you pay a little attention to their way of behaving around girls. However.. It's only natural to love players, th

Posted on 05/10/2009 at 3:05:06 PM

What happens when the player ages, like 50-54, once a player always a player I presume. Disgusting.

Posted on 07/21/2008 at 7:07:30 PM

Great article: To bad I didn't read it before I got played! Payers are controlling and incapable of loving anyone but themselves.

Posted on 07/21/2008 at 6:07:00 PM

Interesting how similar the description is to the behaviour of someone who has narcissitic personality disorder, or antisocial personality disorder (sociopath)... a little disturbing really, to think that so many men in western culture fit this description...

Posted on 10/17/2007 at 6:10:00 PM

great work, as always!

Posted on 06/19/2007 at 10:06:00 AM

Good article. While these are common sense, some people don't recognize these things when they are blinded by their feelings for someone. You did a good job. :-)

Posted on 06/13/2007 at 10:06:00 AM

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