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What Women Would like from Their Men: Part 2

Or, Why Didn't You Just Say So?

By M.S.Medina, published Jun 11, 2007
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I did the first part of this article a few months ago. At the time I thought doing the second part would be really easy, but I found that I needed time to think about what I needed to say. My husband believes that women and men are actually different species. I am starting to believe that he just may be right. The longer I live and the more men I have interacted with I do know that we are very, very different in just about everything. Most men haven't a clue about what a woman wants in a relationship. Quite a few of them could care less what we do want, let alone what we need. I thought that I would like to place a few more suggestions down on paper just in case there is a man or two out there who might actually be interested in finding out a bit more about the women in his life.

Women are not as much of a mystery as most men seem to think that they are. Women are just a lot more in touch with their emotions and not afraid to let anyone know that fact. I guess a lot of this falls back on us women and the way we let our baby boys be taught about showing their feelings. Most fathers immediately start telling their crying baby boys that "Big boys don't cry," or that they must "be brave." Little girls are picked up, cuddled and kissed when they cry. I didn't raise my son that way, and if you were, for this I am truly sorry. Women do want to know you have feelings and I have never known a woman that thought their man was a sissy if he showed his emotions by laughing, or by crying, for that matter. If you are having a sad thought, or your feelings are hurt, let us know. We might understand much more than you thought we would, and we won't slam the door on you because we feel you are weak.

What Women Would like from Their Men: Part 2

Is love all that a couple needs to be happy?

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Takeaways
  • Some people seem to think that men and women are totally different species.
  • If you want to know what a woman wants, just ask her.
  • One of the things that a woman wants is some of your time.
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If you combined Mister Nice Guy and An experienced man together, you have the whole truth, well almost; women only want the nice guy after their partying days are over, and they have gone through the bad boys. Money is very important its bs, to say "your time with us is more important" when I was going to school with no job, no females wanted to date me, now that I'm going to go to med school, hmmm.. so many to choose from, it's bs, but its the way of the world, men are way more honest than women, we say what we mean, even though its not always nice; women, however expect us to guess how they feel all the time, they are confusing, they say one thing and mean another. A woman says she's fine, she's not fine, she's pouting on the inside planning on getting us back later, a guy we just tell it like it is, sort of like I'm doing now. I'm sure some people, girls and maybe whipped men will call me a jerk, oh well at least I'm honest. And you don't see the girls all rushing to get with the se

Posted on 12/09/2007 at 1:12:17 AM

 
This article is, at best, not the whole truth. Women fall head over heels for the "Alpha" male; a man that displays traits of dominance. The antithesis of the Alpha male is the "Beta"; the emotionally supportive, friendly, "nice guy". Like a wise previous poster said, the Alpha male gets them pregnant, the Beta male takes care of the baby. It ain't pretty, but that's how nature wired MOST women's brains (especially the most attractive females). Power, be it in monetary form, political, or socioeconomic (i.e. a company owner), prestige, even criminal, is what will get the most attractive women. Natural selection has wired her brain for choosing a mate that has the most potential to care for the offspring. This tendency is unconscious in the female, so ladies will deny it,guys. Trust me. I'm a nice guy.

Posted on 12/05/2007 at 6:12:00 PM

 
Wonderfully written. Thanks for sharing :-)

Posted on 07/16/2007 at 1:07:00 PM

 
Fantastic piece! I loved this!

Posted on 06/20/2007 at 2:06:00 AM

 
Very interesting article and a great read!

Posted on 06/18/2007 at 9:06:00 PM

 
I'm guessing that Mr. Mancour and "Experienced Man" are the kind of men who try to lead their women on a leash and think of themselves as God's gift to women, which I ran into quite frequently when I was living in the Southeast. Exactly the kind of men who would never understand an article like this because they try to dominate the women they know, and don't give a rat's behind about how they feel as long as they (the men) get what they want from women.

Posted on 06/15/2007 at 11:06:00 PM

 
Fantastic article, I enjoyed!

Posted on 06/14/2007 at 11:06:00 AM

 
I have to agree with the "experienced man" on this one. Your article posits that men were placed here to serve women. The fact is, your article is horribly one-sided and (while not meaning to be, I admit) hopelessly disrespectful of masculinity. You treat men as if they were wayward children to be shaped to your will, not free and independent persons with our own agendas, ideas, feelings, and aspirations. Unfortunately, your view is typical.

Posted on 06/13/2007 at 10:06:00 AM

 
I meant to say Experienced Man! My bad. Please forgive me Amy!

Posted on 06/12/2007 at 6:06:00 PM

 
Thank you for your opinion Miss or is it Mr. Amy Brown?

Posted on 06/12/2007 at 5:06:00 PM

 
Wow, what a crappy article. Men do not exist to make you happy. Your attitude of "men have to be the way we want them to be or we have to change them" shows how little respect you have for men. You seem out of touch because most of the women I meet care about only 3 things: money, power, looks. Women will stay with an abusive guy if he has one of those three. Hell, they will start dating a guy they know is abusive if he has one or more of those "traits" Women WILL look down on a man who they perceive to be weak. Of course women like a man who will take care of their children. They just don't want to have kids with them. They chase after jerks and users, then look for a good man once they have gotten knocked up. Just ask? And get an answer that is plainly a lie? Yeah, that is the ticket. I guess you have totally missed how women expect men to read their minds about what they want and if the men don't there is something wrong with the men. As for communication, Amy Brown

Posted on 06/12/2007 at 2:06:00 PM

 
"Macho" is not that important a word in my dictionary. My wife has seen me cry, and I find it very natural to do so under the proper conditions. NOT crying is unnatural.

Posted on 06/11/2007 at 11:06:00 PM

 
open honest communication is always great.. thanks for sharing

Posted on 06/11/2007 at 7:06:00 PM

 
Nice read--- I loved the last line!!!!!!!

Posted on 06/11/2007 at 9:06:00 AM

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