Sleepless Nights and Slumber Parties

Please realize that there really is no such thing as a SLEEPover for kids. Really, it's more like a WAKEover. Also, there are no SLUMBER parties, only GOT-YOUR-NUMBER parties. (That's you, parents, especially if you think those preteens are really sleeping!).

When you, as a parent, agree to host an overnight party for your youngster, you need to be prepared for the inevitable sleepless night. Once you understand that, you will be ready for anything.

Here are seven tips for a successful overnight party:

1) Select a suitable location.

Slumber parties can be quite successful at home, particularly if you have a basement or recreation-room. Why not book an economical local motel room, and plan for the children to swim in the motel pool? Your guests will tucker themselves out and possibly even sleep for a few hours, and your home will be preserved!

If you do decide to host the party at home, pick a spot where the kids can actually act like kids. They will need some semblance of privacy, although you will want to peek in on them from time to time.

2) Draw up a manageable guest list.

Keep it short: no more than 5-6 children. Make sure your young guests are old enough to stay overnight without growing homesick for their parents.

Consider your space. The children will need room to roll out their sleeping bags.

3) Print clear details on your invitations.

Tell parents exactly when the party begins and ends. Clearly state whether you plan to provide supper and breakfast. Announce exactly where the party will be held and what the activity plans are, particularly if you will be transporting any children. Instruct guests about what they will need to bring (pajamas, sleeping bags, pillows, etc.) If it is NOT a birthday party, let guests know that, so they do not feel as if they need to bring gifts.

4) Plan a few fun activities.

Crafts, cookie-decorating, games, and movies will help the time flow smoothly.

5) Set some ground-rules.