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How to Choose a Bridesmaid Dress that Won't Make Your Friends Hate You

Avoid Choosing Ugly, Gaudy Dresses for Your Bridal Party

By Lucida Stevens, published Jun 15, 2007
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It's something every woman fears. Your dear friend is getting married. She wants you to be a bridesmaid. You go along to the gown store for shopping and fitting and she chooses a hideous contraption of baby blue chiffon, lace, and frills. In fact, you think she may have coped the dress exactly from My Big Fat Greek Wedding. It even poofs out at the bottom like a mermaid tail. You end up paying over $300 for this dress and with alterations, you still feel like a clown and look like a lampshade. You vow, you'll pick attractive bridesmaid dresses someday. But when that day rolls around, can you be trusted? Personally, I have been in five weddings and have attended well over thirty in my life. Now as my peers are reaching their mid-twenties, more and more wedding announcements are appearing in my mailbox. As a dutifully bridesmaid, I will of course, wear any dress the bride chooses. However, after attending so many weddings and watching numerous bridesmaid atrocities walk down the aisle, there are a few things that I have learned about bridesmaid dresses. There are also a few things that your bridesmaids would love for you to consider before you choose a dress. Hopefully, as my days as a bridesmaid increase, my own friends will take the following things into consideration.

How to Choose a Bridesmaid Dress that Won't Make Your Friends Hate You
How to Choose a Bridesmaid Dress that Won't Make Your Friends Hate You

This simple, classic gown would look beautiful on many women.

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Takeaways
  • Classic gowns will withstand the test of time
  • Dresses with lace, frill, beads, and poofs often look ridiculous
  • The sentence "...and you can wear it again!" should be avoided when choosing dresses
Did You Know?
At some point in every woman's life, they'll wear a bridesmaid dress that they'd really rather avoid.
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I agree - simpler is better.

Posted on 01/22/2008 at 12:01:21 PM

 
I've had to wear some bad ones in my day :) Very nice article; thanks!

Posted on 01/18/2008 at 12:01:52 PM

 
Well thought out!

Posted on 01/17/2008 at 3:01:21 PM

 
Excellent tips!

Posted on 01/16/2008 at 7:01:48 PM

 
I had to wear the most hideous, lavender, with a big ruffle at the top and lace trim at the bottom dress for a friend's wedding. Thank you for this public service announcement!

Posted on 01/16/2008 at 6:01:57 PM

 
omg i was in a wedding last summer and had to wear a teal dress! the dress was actually really nice so i shouldn't complain, but the color was awful so i'll never wear it again! this is a great article though, i definitely agree that you should pick a dress that they'd be able to wear again!

Posted on 01/15/2008 at 8:01:35 AM

 
When I got married, we (yes, we - I consulted with my girls) chose a dress that would be useful for them for occasions other than just my wedding. No light pink frou-frou for me.

Posted on 01/12/2008 at 3:01:37 PM

 
This is a great article. Personally, I would never pay and never expect someone else to pay for a dress that I/they would wear one time. I think the bride should have to pay for the bridesmaid dresses. I also think wedding fanfare is a little ridiculous. Im not into the whole "look at me" aspect. I just wanted to marry my man in front of the 7 people I most cared about - one of them being our 7 month old daughter :) (kinda switched those around) For those brides who must have bridesmaids, I hope they read this article.

Posted on 12/14/2007 at 3:12:39 AM

 
i need more oppshions on the dreeses !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted on 11/11/2007 at 3:11:00 PM

 
I loved the title of this article. The picture and dress, both are beautiful. Great article!

Posted on 06/18/2007 at 10:06:00 PM

 
I agree with the whole thing. Those dresses cost some money and it's so nice to be able to use them again at another point and not just dump them in a thrift store box. Good article.

Posted on 06/15/2007 at 2:06:00 PM

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