Ending Abortion the Right Way

Forceful Bans Aren't the Solution, but There is a Way to Render Abortion Obsolete

By Katie Hartman, published Jun 13, 2007
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As a young pro-choice woman, I want to end abortion. Does this statement seem like some kind of oxymoron? It shouldn't. Elective abortion, as I see it, is a symptom of a serious problem that affects women all over the world - unintended, unwanted pregnancy. Too many women have found themselves caught between a rock and a hard place in the turmoil of trying to deal with unwanted pregnancies, and it's time that we found a solution.

The first step is to realize that unwanted pregnancies are a very real problem. Many pro-lifers, as benevolent as their intentions may be, are incapable of sympathizing with women who know beyond a doubt that they aren't ready or simply don't want to have a child. "Every child is a blessing," they say, but the reality of the matter is that using the legal system to force desperate women to carry unwanted pregnancies to term won't do anyone a favor. As long as we pretend abortion is the problem, we risk missing the crucial fact that every elective abortion starts with a pregnancy that came at the wrong time for the wrong person. When we embrace legislation that limits abortion availability, we shut these women out in their time of need.

As I said earlier, I want to end abortion - but not through laws and court decisions that back pregnant women into a corner. Not by hacking away at women's rights or using misinformation to frighten women away from their options. Pro-choice and pro-life groups should work together to end the need for elective abortion, and that means fighting the sources of unwanted pregnancy with sexual education, widespread birth control availability, and programs to eliminate poverty.

Ending Abortion the Right Way

There is no easy solution to an unwanted pregnancy.

Credit: Chris Greene

Copyright: Chris Greene

Takeaways
  • Social issues that compound the prevalence of unwanted pregnancy.
  • Ending abortion without putting pregnant women at risk.
Did You Know?
According to the Guttmacher Institute, a leading reproductive health organization, women living below the federal poverty level are more than four times as likely to have abortions than wealthier women.
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I would never order someone what to do or harrass them about their decision. I have great sympathy for anyone in pain, whatever the reason for the pain and I am surely not the only pro-lifer with that view. In fact, now that I look at the comments section, I can see at least one other person who feels the same. As adults (or even teens) we know that having sex can cause a baby to be conceived, so when we make the choice to have sex, we need to prepare ourselves for the possibility that a baby might come, instead of panicking when it happens. The only case in which I would excuse abortion is a medical reason. Otherwise, there is no reason an unborn child should have to pay for the mistakes that the parents made. If you can't take care of a child, there is adoption and there are plenty of people who can't have children that would gladly accept the responsibility.

Posted on 06/25/2007 at 5:06:00 PM

 
continued...I was always there for support. All of my friends know my stance on abortion. I also know hard it is to be pregnant at an inconvenient time. Not a single one of my kids was planned and every single one was conceived using a different type of birth control accurately. They all failed. I am too fertile. LOL But, being in that situation, I also knew that abortion was not an option. How can something that ends a life be a choice? I will never understand that, but at the same time, I do feel sorry for people who have unplanned pregnancies. I have been in that situation 6 times. I have four kids of my own (two miscarried) and 2 "gifts" (my stepkids). I too felt alone and confused, but to me, the only choices were to keep the baby or do adoption. I obviously chose to keep all four.

Posted on 06/25/2007 at 5:06:00 PM

 
I agree with you in part. I do believe that our children are not getting the correct sex education. You are definitely correct in that aspect. That is why I will be the one to educate my own children in that area, as well as provide them with ample resources so they aen't just going off of my word. However, I will have to disagree that pro-life women don't have sympathy. We have sympathy for everyone involved. I am speaking from my personal views. I am pro-life. I have sympathized for plenty friends with unwanted pregnancies and I did not judge or tell them what to do.

Posted on 06/25/2007 at 4:06:00 PM

 
I agree with you, but I also feel it is dangerous to lump pro-lifers all in one boat. We can sympathize - but we are sympathizing with an unborn child instead of the adult that was aware that sex had consequences. I am against abortion not only because it takes a life (pro-life stance), but also because it takes away the rights of a person; possibly even a woman. I've always found it funny that liberals that are pro-choice are also pro-whale, pro-tree, and anti-war (I am guessing because of death). Yet without those little babies there will be no one to protect the whales, the trees, or to support or protest against the war. Of course that's just my two cents. :)

Posted on 06/25/2007 at 6:06:00 AM

 
I think I agree with you, Katie. But full sexual intercourse--just doing that one little thing (not everything that can be done around it)--is over-rated. It should be taught as the water-trap in the golf-course of sex-ed. ... In fact, that's what sex-ed should be! Sort of an elective that everyone needs to take when they're grown enough, where you gain mastery of sex-toys---enabling students to experience all the pleasure involved while avoiding 'that one little thing.'

Posted on 06/23/2007 at 9:06:00 PM

 
Abortion should not be used as a birth control method. People should practice taking the after pill if they engage in irresponsible sex. Unfortunately the stats are that 50%, half of all children born into the world, are unwanted. When I was in high school they informed us about ALL kinds of birth control but the one they said was 100% was always and will always be abstinence. Too bad people have no self-control. We are simply killing each other off, mentally, emotionally, and physically. Also, if you were raped abortion should be the number one option. No one should have to bear a child produced by the devil.

Posted on 06/23/2007 at 8:06:00 AM

 
I think your article was very well written. I am pro choice, but agree with Ardeth that birth control is a better choice.

Posted on 06/21/2007 at 12:06:00 PM

 
Although the article is well-written, and I do agree with several points ( that we need to educate people, especially teens), I still don't think abortion is the answer, ever. Maybe in the cases of rape, since the woman had NO choice in getting pregnant. But if you are having sex, the you must be responsible for your actions. No matter what the consequences. I got pregnant unexpectantly. It was unplanned, I wasn't married, and only worked part time because I was in college. But I did not terminate, that was never an option for me. Now I have a beautiful girl, and a baby boy. I am so happy with my kids, and couldn't imagine my life without them.

Posted on 06/20/2007 at 3:06:00 PM

 
I did not spell a word properly; That is your argument for murdering your child to make yourself feel better? Come on!!! You could have come up with something better than that. Don't blame poverty as your reason for murder, since you already said the reason you killed your child was so the both of you would feel better and not worry about the child.

Posted on 06/17/2007 at 2:06:00 PM

 
"Wow Jake Atkisson - so to elevate YOUR worry about how your child was being raised, YOU decided to MURDER the child. BOy that makes perfect sense! I am so happy for you that you were able to eleviate YOUR worry with murder. Good for YOU!!" -- It's spelled 'alleviate'. 'Nuff said.

Posted on 06/16/2007 at 1:06:00 PM

 
Very nice article. It's nice to find other pro-choice people out there who feel the same way that I do.

Posted on 06/16/2007 at 10:06:00 AM

 
Great article Katie

Posted on 06/16/2007 at 9:06:00 AM

 
Wow Jake Atkisson - so to elevate YOUR worry about how your child was being raised, YOU decided to MURDER the child. BOy that makes perfect sense! I am so happy for you that you were able to eleviate YOUR worry with murder. Good for YOU!!

Posted on 06/16/2007 at 9:06:00 AM

 
I've always been pro-choice, but I agree with you that birth control is a better choice than abortion. Problem is, birth control doesn't always work, even for well-informed people with the best of intentions, so the abortion option must be available.

Posted on 06/15/2007 at 10:06:00 PM

 
My wife had an abortion early in our marriage. Our reasons? We couldn't financially support a child and the very idea of turning any child of ours over for adoption would have left us constantly wondering how our child was doing, how they were living, etcetera, so on in that vein. So, in the case of my wife's decision, poverty was the culprit, as I suspect it is in far too many incidents. Just thought I'd share that.

Posted on 06/14/2007 at 8:06:00 AM

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