Family: Quality Time is the Answer to Teen Pregnancy and Gang Violence

While the nation desperately searches for a long-term solution to teen pregnancy, gangs, drug addiction and violence, self-serving politicians propagate a debate designed to elevate their profiles, raise money and garner votes.

Unfortunately, these kinds of issue tends to polarize our society and attract parasites who prey on the pain and suffering of others. Add a mainstream media that lives off of fanning the fire's flames, and solutions, much less common ground to begin serious discussion, are hard to to come by.

It's time to face facts. Short-term remedies and band-aid legislation are useless. Public chest beating and flag waiving make a wonderful 30-second sound byte, but do nothing toward finding a solution.

Unfortunately, the American Dream has evolved. Tight budgets, added workload and erratic work schedules make it a real challenge for today's parents to find, much less spend quality time with their children. The once simple act of an afternoon movie can be impossible when pursuing a career, and taking a three-day weekend can be financial suicide for a fiscally challenged inner-city single mother.

As a result, today's youngsters spend an increasing number of unsupervised hours in front of the television, where society's ills are romantically portrayed. Those few programs that are wholesome in nature get prime-time play with the sameregularity NASA is putting astronauts on the moon.

Quality time has grown to mean a rented video, sporadically watched between the laundry, homework, dinner and dishes.

Maybe it's time families rediscover what was once the backbone of our national passtimes. More than 32 percent of adult Americans claim the most fond memories they have of time spent with their father came during outdoor activities, particularly fishing. It was the single highest rated activity in the survey.