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How Does a Cancer Diagnosis Alter Family Relationships?

By Sophie, published Jun 27, 2007
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A cancer diagnosis does not necessarily mean a death sentence, but that is how some relatives view it when they hear that their relative has been diagnosed with cancer. They may be afraid of having to go through the trauma of surgery, chemotherapy and radiation with their relative and not being able to offer an practical assistance. So it is easier for them to just walk away and ignore the reality of the cancer diagnosis. Then there are relatives who become much closer and supportive of one another during this difficult period of time. This article will talk openly about how a cancer diagnosis alters family relationships.

How does a cancer diagnosis alter family relationships? Fights seem trivial

One thing that cancer does to a family is to open everyone's eyes to the reality of the world around them and how they now slot into it. A family who may have fought and argued a lot in the past may now come to see that they were fighting over very trivial and meaningless matters. Cancer makes people accept that life is fragile and that it is not something that should be taken for granted. As such, many family members find that this is the time when they resolve their family disputes and come to an understanding of one another. Of course, this is not always the case, but immediate family members who live together are often the ones to benefit more so from this new understanding of life.

How does a cancer diagnosis alter family relationships? Closer family bond

Takeaways
  • Fights seem trivial when a person's life hangs in the balance
  • A cancer diagnosis can make a family draw closer together
  • Outside interference can worsen
Did You Know?
Families who band together during this time of trial will learn new, valuable lessons about love, family and commitment
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Great article! My family was always close but we became even closer when my great grandmother was diagnosed with cancer.

Posted on 07/10/2007 at 2:07:00 PM

 
one thing, though, is that people always give somebody who's sick that "so...how ya doin?" with the sad eyes and what not. i see people do it to my dad a lot...im sure he gets sick of it.

Posted on 07/02/2007 at 7:07:00 AM

 
That's so touching, Shanna. Thanks for sharing that. Sophie

Posted on 07/01/2007 at 10:07:00 AM

 
Excellent article, Sophie. Any type of major change can do this to a family. For example, my article about the 2-year-old who was murdered by her mom's boyfriend...the father's side of the family was always distant, now they are very close to another. They get together at least once a week because they know now first-hand how quickly they can lose one another.

Posted on 07/01/2007 at 8:07:00 AM

 
Thanks for all the comments! Sophie

Posted on 06/28/2007 at 5:06:00 PM

 
good observations.

Posted on 06/28/2007 at 4:06:00 PM

 
It certainly should work that way. Unfortunately, it doesn't always.

Posted on 06/28/2007 at 10:06:00 AM

 
Yep. I learned not to sweat the small stuff... and that it is all indeed small stuff. Some people now accuse me of being toooo laid back. HA!

Posted on 06/28/2007 at 1:06:00 AM

 
Thanks, Jaleh. I've been there with my mum, so I have seen first hand how people change. Sophie

Posted on 06/27/2007 at 7:06:00 PM

 
Very informative and uinque topic. Excellent work!

Posted on 06/27/2007 at 6:06:00 PM

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