What Do Men Want? Encouragement

When we're little girls we think about want daddy wants, but once we're grown up we tend to switch to what we want from men. In all honesty we pretty much want to be worshipped. Women are known for expecting too much. A friend of mine has a man who struggles with his pay checks. Once in awhile he brings home a thousand dollar check and she's still not content with what he has to offer. She either needs to get her own job or lay off her old man. Putting a man down over what he earns will only hamper his career development. My friend's husband refuses to worship her, because she is not worshipping him.

If you've got a man whom you care for ladies encourage him to advance in his career. Of course, if he has no ambition don't push it. You'll either have to accept him as he is or let him go. After all, if you wanted a rich man you should have married one. You only have yourself to blame. Also, don't expect him to give you what you should be giving yourself. There is nothing wrong with being a stay at home mom and certainly putting a man's career first is nothing to be ashamed of at all. However, if it bothers you that he isn't climbing the ladder to success maybe you should concentrate on your own career goals. Sometimes, we project our insecurities onto other people. There's nothing wrong with putting a man's career first if that's really what you want to do. Think about it. While
you're at it consider whether or not what you want for him is what he wants for himself. Don't waste your time trying to control someone's elses career goals. You may find what you're really unhappy about is your lack of success rather than his lack of ambition. When he sees you trying hard to make your dreams come true he may find himself inspired.