Sex Advice: Sex While She's On Her Period and Dodging a Stalker

For the Experienced, Non-Experienced, or Just Plain Confused

By Lisa Maynard, published Apr 18, 2006
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Dear Lisa,

My boyfriend always wants to have sex while I’m on my period. I think it’s gross, but he says he doesn’t mind. I still haven’t let him, but ironically I always seem to be hornier when it’s that time of month. Should I try it? And if I do, how can I do it so it won’t be gross?

Concerned about Flow

Dear Flow,

Wow, he doesn’t mind and you do? Actually it’s not as uncommon as it sounds. In my experience, girls are usually more freaked out about this issue than guys are. Almost EVERY woman I know will downright refuse to have sex while Aunt Flow is visiting. I think it’s remarkable that men have finally gotten over the ick factor of a woman’s period, and have come to accept that the menstrual cycle is part of woman that can’t be changed. Now we just need to women to come to that same acceptance. Women grow up being told that being on your period should be kept a secret, not discussed and that it is an inconvenience of being a woman. I tend to agree about that last part, but it is something that I’m trying to embrace more. A woman’s menstrual cycle is really the epitome of being a woman, besides giving birth and boobs and stuff. A great book to read on this subject is “Cunt” by Inga Muscio. She talks in length about women taking back their womanhood and embracing it, and the word cunt.

Did You Know?
In Kafa in southwestern Ethiopia, a man found guilty of violating a virgin may be punished by having his head or hands cut off.
Resources
  • Every woman, please read "Cunt" by Inga Muscio. ;
Comments
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Interesting - and true!! I've always encouraged it, and it IS fun!!

Posted on 05/28/2008 at 10:05:45 PM

 
If a must ,you can eat oranges but see that the juice does not trickle down to form a rainbow!

Posted on 04/03/2008 at 11:04:23 AM

 
Havin sex durin that time of the month is the best thing ever!!!

Posted on 09/08/2007 at 9:09:00 PM

 
childs, u really are a child. and BOO! double posting. women can (and should have sex) whenever they choose. and obviously you can choose to not get laid.

Posted on 09/02/2007 at 4:09:00 PM

 
it's flipping amazing. just have black or dark coloured towels underneath, several layers just so the sheets don't get messy.

Posted on 06/22/2007 at 7:06:00 PM

 
Yum Yum! I eagerly await the oncome of my ladys period and fully enjoy ALL the aspects of a compleate sexual experience. Yet my lady is somewhat reserved between the sheets. But she eagerly anounces the start of her period and lets me drop to my knees and eat her as she enters the house. Well as long as we both enjoy!

Posted on 09/17/2006 at 8:09:00 AM

 
My husband loves to have sex during that time of the month. He claims that I am wilder, more passionate, and it just feels so darn good! Sex during my period is tension relieving and does help with the cramps. However, I won't do it for the first day or two - it's just way to messy and I'm usually too miserable. Afterwards, I'm game if he is!

Posted on 04/18/2006 at 1:04:00 PM

 
Gross!!! Women should not have sex on their period...I repeat women should not have sex on their periods!!!

Posted on 04/18/2006 at 1:04:00 PM

 
Gross!!! Women should not have sex on their period...I repeat women should not have sex on their periods!!!

Posted on 04/18/2006 at 1:04:00 PM