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Poll: Gays and Lesbians Can't Change, but Can They?

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Can gays and lesbians change their sexual orientation? Cnn.com reports that 18yr old Steven Field finally revealed to family and friends that he was gay after being in the closet during his high school years. Field remarked that being gay was natural for him and that he did not choose to be gay. Field believes that sexual orientation is not something that you choose

In fact, how sexuality is acquired has been a hot political issue for quite some time. As time has passed, Americans have begun preferring genetically centered arguments whose main claim is that, just like fingerprints or eye color, sexuality is a permanent part of a person.

Cnn Opinon Research Corp did the poll. The poll revealed that 56 percent of Americans believe that people are unable to change their sexual orientation even if they desired to do so. News.com.au reports that 42 percent of respondents believed that one's sexual orientation was a result of his or her upbringing and environment. Cnn.com reports that this is the first time since the poll was first conducted ten years ago that the majority of people held an "unchangeable" viewpoint on the issue of homosexuality.

Six years ago on 45 percent of the poll participants believed that gays and homosexuals could not change their sexual orientation. In 1998 only 36% believed the same thing. The poll reveals that an attitude shift is taking place on the gay and lesbian issue. Cnn reports that many gays and lesbians are reporting that more people are accepting homosexuality including those of the state legislature that deny gays the right to marry.

Cnn.com quoted Rev. Mel White, founder and president of faith-based gay rights group Soulfource. Thursday, he said, " The poll is such good news. Over half of America thinks we don't have to be healed from a sickness; suddenly we are OK as we are."

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The "ex-gay" movement sickens me (and I'm a heterosexual). I would never try to change my friends and acquaintances who are homosexual. I love them as is. I think anybody who really changed was not really homosexual in the first place. They may have been bisexual and learned to be attracted to the opposite sex. They may have been confused or wanted to explore and got caught up in the homosexual idea. The only people who are homosexual who do change, are ones that WANT to change, which gives the idea that htey really are not homosexual.

Posted on 11/11/2007 at 9:11:00 PM

 
third sex should be respected because they are humans like us. ther should not be descrimination for they showed their courage to stand up and let them shine!!. dont judge a book by its cover

Posted on 10/03/2007 at 11:10:00 PM

 
third sex should be respected because they are humans like us. ther should not be descrimination for they showed their courage to stand up and let them shine!!. dont judge a book by its cover

Posted on 10/03/2007 at 11:10:00 PM

 
(last bit - I'll summarize) Basically after trying very hard to be a lesbian for two years - including coming out to my family and being accepted but not being able to have sex with women no matter how much it made sense to me logically. I came away believing that you can't change your sexuality, that you are born that way and even your environment or willingness to change won't make a difference.

Posted on 09/19/2007 at 4:09:00 PM

 
(continuation of last comment) After I finished college I decided to try dating women it was partly because I just wasn't getting into relationships with men and another part was that I would have prefered to be able to date women, I felt women would be more caring and more easily able to commit in a relationship, I also thought most young men I was meeting were quite callous and selfish relationship wise, so it just made sense for me to date women. I tried to be a lesbian for two years, I really wanted to be a lesbian, but I just didn't want to do anything with the women beyond kissing - I enjoyed kissing them a lot but once the clothes came off, there was just a lot of stuff missing and a lot of stuff there - I would just stop being turned on. I tried dating more "butch" women who looked more like men or boys, it still didn't work out, but I gave it a good try, I even came out to my family and they were accepting. It was easy for me to find "girlfriends", I could flirt with them easi

Posted on 09/19/2007 at 4:09:00 PM

 
I think you have to be born gay to be, I don't think even your environment can make you gay. Since I was old enough to be interested in guys, it seemed my friends were being asked out but I wasn't, I went through high school without dating. Then I went to college, I went to a women's college where the environment was very lesbian friendly, but there were other co-ed colleges nearby so lots of guys came to campus for parties. Throughout college I had one only one brief relationship with a man. I had "crushes" on women but I didn't want to act on them because I thought that might be an influence of the environment. But because of these "crushes" I thought maybe the reason I was dating men more was because I was gay, I decided I would wait to test that when I was out of college in a more neutral environment. After I finished college I decided to try dating women it was partly because I just wasn't getting into relationships with men and another part was that I would have prefered to be ab

Posted on 09/19/2007 at 4:09:00 PM

 
Of course it's NOT a choice. Why on earth would anyone actively choose to be persecuted against, beaten up, ridiculed or otherwise made to feel as though they are less a citizen of humanity than others of the hetero persuasion? It's a ridiculous notion to actually believe anyone would choose such an uphill journey for equality and acceptance. If it was a choice, wouldn't everyone have decided to be straight long ago just to avoid the social stigma that has only recently begun to change in public opinion? Coming out of the closet...actually admitting to yourself and then to FAMILY and FRIENDS is often the most difficult actions a gay person makes in life. There is huge fear of the unknown...of rejection of family and friends...fear for personal safety due to ignorant biggoted people. Believe me I know, coming out was the single most difficult (and eventually rewarding) thing I have ever had to do. I was lucky enough to have an amazing and accepting circle of family and friends...

Posted on 09/07/2007 at 7:09:00 PM

 
they can't. I've tried with 20 years of help from God and the Church. I wish I could change. To JL Coolidge's comment...First of all, you don't even know the difference between sexual orientation and sexual behavior. I'd suggest you educate yourself before making ridiculous posts.

Posted on 07/06/2007 at 10:07:00 PM

 
I don't know if they could change or not; they'd have to WANT to change, for sure. Touchy subject...

Posted on 07/05/2007 at 1:07:00 PM

 
Great article!

Posted on 07/04/2007 at 8:07:00 AM

 
Believing that a so called gay or lesbian person cannot change is comparable to believing that a person cannot change any of their acquired behaviours: preferring Pepsi over Coke, Fords over Chevrolets, pork over beef, chicken over fich, red over green, day over night, morality over immorality.

Posted on 07/03/2007 at 9:07:00 AM

 
I believe that for a gay or lesbian person to change would be as hard as a lion turning vegetarian. A good read, however!

Posted on 07/02/2007 at 11:07:00 PM

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