How a Woman Can Keep from Driving a Man Away

I am not an expert but I do have extensive knowledge in how to drive a guy away. Several times over I have done something that one should not do if she wanted the guy to actually stick around. So having been there and done that I can say that I can speak from experience on the things that
 a woman should not do. I have written an article on What not to Say on a First Date and an article on How to Make a Date a Successful One, now I want to really walk you through what not to do during your relationship if you want to keep the guy you are seeing.

The wrong name slip up:

One of the things that a woman should not do at any point in her relationship if she wants to keep the guy around is to call him by another man's name during sex. Now while this looks like common sense you would be surprised at how many women do this. I mean after all you are in the heat of the moment and you just happen to scream out a name or moan a name and it is not the guy you are with. I myself have been guilty of this. A sure fire way to ensure this does not happen ladies is to keep your mouth shut during sex. Do not talk at all during sex and you will guarantee that you do not make a slip of the tongue.

Sexual Partner Honesty Blunder:

While I am all for being honest with your partner after you have been together for awhile, I will tell you that it is not kosher to tell your partner how many sexual partners you have had. Now if you are a virgin or have only had two sexual partners tops, then I would say tell him because men love innocents. If the number is over two, then keep this to yourself. Do not lie to your new beau but tell him instead that you do not believe that it is an open topic. Let him know that sex is private to you and you will not discuss with him previous partner with him anymore than you will discuss your sex life with him with anyone else. That way you did not lie to him about the number of partners that you have had, but you did not make him run for the hills by telling him just how experienced you really are.

 
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This is so very true.

Posted on 11/30/2007 at 3:11:00 PM

the last tip about jumping into bed prematurely is very valuable advice. ive personally watched many friends pretty much kill any chance of a once possible relationship with men because they did the opposite of what you advise here.

Posted on 07/20/2007 at 11:07:00 AM

great tips!

Posted on 07/19/2007 at 7:07:00 AM

So true - esp. 1 and 2 - Now I guess I just need to go back to dating to worry about this.

Posted on 07/18/2007 at 10:07:00 PM

:)

Posted on 07/17/2007 at 9:07:00 PM

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