The Link Between Your Social Status and Your Libido

Going through my neighborhood and talking with a few open minded citizens I have noticed a social status between those individuals that have high libidos and those who do not. A libido is the need to conform to society and control the libido, contained in what is defined as the ego, that leads to tension and disturbance in both society and the individual. This disturbance is labeled as a mental imbalance that causes distress. Thus, libido has to be transformed into socially useful energy, through the process of coping or dealing with it. Libido can also be classified as the urge to mate. For humans, the natural way in which this occurs is through sex.

Those with a strong libido and the ability to find mates easily also have the tendency to become well known in a social place. For instance, we are attracted to those that are clean, have money, well shaped bodies, and have intelligence. Talking to some people around my community I've noticed that "the bad" boy/girl libido makes for popular sexual desire. They are most likely to find a partner quicker than the "shy" guy/girl. The attraction is phenomenal to wild rather than settled and tame. I also have noticed that sexual desire is more aimed in visual appearances than it is on any of the other senses. The more attractive one looks the more likely you will find a date.

Talking to a few married couples I have found that they were more attracted to each other by a visual appearance and popularity. The more friends one may have the more likely they would date. The funny thing is about these married couples, they have unsolved issues that keep reoccurring since the time they met each other. One couple I interviewed for this article still have problems over jealousy due to the man not being able to cut the ties with his childhood buddies. Yet another couple have issues that were overlooked and now regretting the marriage completely over the woman not wanting to work, and has only had 1 job her entire life. Many relationships happen because of a high libido. In society today, if you have no social network then you don't have a mate to go home to.