Unwanted Children: Parents Need to Accept and Love Their Ugly Kids

If you grew up as a homely and because of it an unloved child, you will remember those painful experiences for the rest of your life. Homely children that are not loved, are traumatized by their parent's rejection, and realize that they are seen as ugly. Children learn about their appearance through their parents without a word being said,but some parents can love only a child that is attractive. All children should be equally loved whether they are good looking or not, because chidhood impresions run deep,and those happy or sad memories as a child will become the foundation of its life as an adult.

People that have been homely all of their lives have a unique way of looking at the world. They are much different than the person who has become homely through personal neglect or old age. Some of those that have been homely since childhood have learned to accept their shortcomings, and if they haven't been psychologically devastated, they will try to make something out of themselves in an area that doesn't require good appearance

Many people that were born homely, and have been unloved since childhood, have turned to crime, it is out of anger at a world that has treats them as unwanted citizens. Criminals were once called: "Plug-Uglies", because many of them were homely. There was a prison rehabilitation program in the 1930s where plastic surgery was used to enhance the appearance of: "Plug-Uglies" it was successful but it ran out of funds. It should be reestablished as a solution to the plight of the less than attractive criminal

There are many areas of child abuse, and the media is full of all kinds of stories about them. But the worse type of child abuse is, the abuse of a parent that avoids a child because the child is seen as less than attractive. That child is very aware of its parent's feelings, and can detect in the facial expressions of an adult if it is loved. When the child detects that it is seen as worthless, the child's world is shattered and those pieces can never be reconstructed