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Prejudices Against Underweight People

By L. Vincent Poupard, published Jul 24, 2007
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Our society is one that has progressed certain prejudices for a few hundred years. While there are many prejudices that people have that are addressed on a regular basis, there are certain ones that are rarely addressed, if at all. The prejudices that underweight people face on a regular basis are not realized by some, and ignored by others.

I have been underweight my entire life. While prejudices against underweight people are similar to the prejudices against overweight people are similar, there are differences in the ways that people address those prejudices, and pronounce them.

It is more common to hear someone being insulted to his or her face for being underweight then it is to hear someone insulted for being overweight. An underweight person will grow up being compared to an Ethiopian, a stick, a rail, a beanpole, and a skeleton. These are names that sometimes will follow the underweight person for the rest of his or her life. While many do not realize that these terms are fueled by a prejudice, the names still hurt.

If a person is overweight, it is not common to hear someone question them about his or her weight problem. It is very common to hear this about an underweight person. Many people would never even consider commenting on someone's weight problem if it caused the person to be overweight. The same respect does not go for those of us that are underweight. Instead, we deal with prejudices on a regular basis.

There have been multiple instances in my life where people have asked me if I was sickly because of the fact that I have always been underweight. In high school, I was tested for both anorexia and bulimia because of the fact that teachers saw that I would eat a lot of food, but never gain any weight. After the third time of being told that I had a quick metabolism, I realized that these tests were fueled by prejudices amongst the teaching staff.

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I would not call myself underweight...I am never ill and yes, I do eat...but only when I am hungry and I stop eating when I am full. I execise, because I actually enjoy it and on a daily basis, because it makes me feel good! And yes, I do eat candy now and again and I do drink coffee with sugar and real cream everyday and yes, I do like how I look and all this I do by own choice!!!! And yet...over and over again, I recieve rude comments from fat people and you know what, I am sick and tired of it!!!! I am not anorexic god dammit...I am fit!!! I do eat...but I eat healthy food and I do not over eat!!! I do execise...but by own choice, not because the media tells me too!!! And most importantly I do not point at fat people saying "Omg...look at her/him...she/he is as a big as a house" or "Should you really eat that cake...it is not good for you, you know" or "Damn, you are so fat...have you got diabetes 2?" And why? Because first of it would be very rude of me and second, it is none o

Posted on 11/06/2008 at 11:11:23 PM

 
Thank you for voicing your opinion. I have just discovered this phenomenon myself and wrote a little post about the same subject. http://natashav.livejournal.com/111575.html?nc=3 I suggest we make people aware of this using Wikipedia and editing the article on http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weight_stigma

Posted on 10/28/2008 at 3:10:24 PM

 
I was born a month early so will always be small no matter what, and of course have a high metabolism to boot. Although I'm 5'7", 125 lbs which is a healthy weight, I still get rude comments that someone wouldn't dream of saying to an overweight person. It does hurt just as much, and I'm sure we've all had our share of 'how dare they??!' instances in the past. Great write.

Posted on 12/12/2007 at 2:12:02 PM

 
amen to how hard it is to find clothes. this article is what i have dreamt of finding. i am 15 years old, 5'2" and 85 lbs (that's like 20 pounds underweight) and at my school people are always like "omg i want your body!!" and i'm thinking 'would you want people coming up to you all day like "omg! omg!"'. every time i go clothes shopping, i am directed to the children's section. just because everyone else is fat doesn't mean i have to be too! a word on hollywood--slim people too can be jealous of celebrity bodies. overweight people think "oh, if i was thin, i'd look like that!" how about the fact that few slim people actually have boobs and butts? not the most important thing, i know, but hollywood makes it seem like skinny=perfect, and that isn't true.

Posted on 10/10/2007 at 8:10:00 PM

 
I had never thought of this side of the weight coin. Good information

Posted on 10/03/2007 at 6:10:00 PM

 
Saw a funny Onion news report the other day about making fun of fat people because everyone should be skinny...good stuff

Posted on 09/16/2007 at 2:09:00 PM

 
I've been overweight my entire life. I think the difference here as that fat people "overhear" comments like "OMG, how disguisting" or rude staring and laughing. Thin people get the remarks you mentioned and get accused of eating disorders. It's ALL wrong. When are people going to accept other people for who they are and not their weight? Very good article.

Posted on 08/07/2007 at 2:08:00 PM

 
Amen! I'm sick of my family saying I need to eat more...and that I have an eating disorder. And what is underweight anyway...in todays society I guess it's anything under 200lb! 250 is normal and exceptable in America now...well I'm happy with my 100lb weight...I'm extreamly healthy and I don't really try to be skinny..I just don't eat crap like McDonalds like fat people do!

Posted on 08/07/2007 at 12:08:00 PM

 
Also, I think that people in this society consider it more acceptable to be thin than fat, and even highly desireable. So in fact much of what you're experiencing may be jealousy or derision based upon intimidation. Seeing you skinny makes them feel fat, simply put. And they put you down. And it's not seen as an insult as it would if they were accosting a fat person.

Posted on 08/07/2007 at 11:08:00 AM

 
I wouldn't have thought people would be prejudiced against the underweight. I've always just been a touch overweight, and struggled with keeping my weight down. Not to sound insensitive, but I think some of what you're interpreting as insulting or prejudicial is actually people being concerned for your health. They're just not expressing themselves well. Anyway, just a thought.

Posted on 08/07/2007 at 11:08:00 AM

 
Try being the "skinny one" in an overweight family... I constantly get accused of having an eating disorder. I am a triathlete, I work hard to stay fit, and it is difficult for me when people constantly question my weight. For once I would like someone to look at me and see all the hard work I put into being fit rather than just saying "oh, she just doesn't eat" or "are you going to go throw that food you just ate up?"

Posted on 08/07/2007 at 8:08:00 AM

 
Oh! I forgot to mention how hard it is to find clothes, and how humiliating it is to be "caught" buying pants for yourself in the children's department. One time I ran into a co-worker (buying clothes for her daughter) who actually laughed in my face. A salesclerk in a "grown-up" store once told me that I didn't have "a woman's body" (I was in my mid-30's). I had too much class to call her fat, but it was hurtful nonetheless. And MS- I've been accused of being a drug fiend also. RIDICULOUS! And let's not forget how taboo it is to call a fat person fat. You really touched on a sensitive issue, L.!

Posted on 08/07/2007 at 8:08:00 AM

 
Your article is right on target. I was quite underweight for a long time, which everyone felt free to comment on. I was also accused of having an eating disorder (which is actually a psychological disorder- so, yes, it's insulting). Now that I'm 40 I've been putting on a little weight (since I turned 35, actually). I'm still underweight, but only by about 10 pounds. The only up-side to it was that my co-workers used to bring me great food!

Posted on 08/07/2007 at 8:08:00 AM

 
While I imagine that skinny people must be made fun of - maybe guys more than girls - and asked about eating disorders, I have to agree with UKWomen on this one.

Posted on 08/07/2007 at 6:08:00 AM

 
It's all about being different - kids (especially adolescents) pick on any difference in one another, whether that's fatness, thinness, prettiness, ugliness, smartness. There will always be people who are either hateful and mean, or petty and jealous. Unfortunately, it seems that our adolescents are growing older these days, some as old as thirty or forty.

Posted on 08/06/2007 at 6:08:00 PM

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