What Makes a Man a Dad?

Permit me to warn you before you read another Word that this Article is not designed to evoke warm fuzzy feelings in you. It isn't intended to speak to the glory of guys who are proud of the fact that after a little hard breathing and a few grunts they have helped to create a life without much thought or Talent. It is however a blunt look at the difference between a Sperm Donor, a Father and a Dad. From one end of the sphere that is in my Opinion no more then an Animal living out its natural Urges to the other extreme which is one of the truest everyday Heroes you will have the privilege of meeting. If you are a ready for a bit of stark naked and yes even harsh worded truth read on. If not, please close this page now and go on with your day.

Sex 'em up, spread their legs, get 'em pregnant and move on - meet the Sperm Donor!

Before I go any further let me explain that I am not addressing those males that have deposited their Sperm in a little vile at the local Sperm Bank for either profit or to help an impotent or barren couple, a lesbian couple et cetera. Nor am I addressing a "surrogate" Father whose entire purpose is to impregnate the designated Mother by the request and with the permission of both partners involved. In either case, this kind of Sperm Donor has gone into the proceedings with all involved knowing that he will never be involved in this child's life and is not wanted there. He is no more then a squirt of juice to help fertilize an egg. Neither one of the two have any reason for to feel shamed other then the one they may feel from their own code of morals., breach of belief or regretted consequences later on.