Don't Allow Your Date to Run Away with Your Cash

Men are getting spanked by their dates all the time. They just don't know they are getting spanked until their wallet starts to throb. More times than not, they don't even have a clue until the end of the night. You're polite enough to ask a young lady out on a date and she so graciously accepts. Then you find out she is trying to milk you for everything you got. At the end of the night you have a light step; even if is only from an empty wallet.

If you have been in the dating world for a while you have come across a few ladies who view men as their personal piggy banks. They can't just sit and have a cup of coffee because that would be a waste of their time. Instead they prefer to go all out ordering the top of the line food, lots of extra drinks and then they want you to spring for a cab so they don't have to drive with you home.

Believe it when it is said there are woman out there who want to take men's money. Once I sat with two young women to get their perspective on dating. Since I had no interest in them and they had no interest in me, we could have a frank conversation about dating. They had no problem talking to me about the games they played on men.

The young 19 and 20-year-old told me that they will say "yes" to any guy that seems like he has money. They love to go out to eat, go to the movies, visit the amusement park and all the other exciting things that cost money. If the young guy asked them for a picnic they would respond, "Sorry I don't know you well enough to be alone" and decline the date because it was boring. The nicer and fancier the date, the more they liked it.

What does this tell us men? Watch out for your wallet. There are signs that help us determine whether or not they like to spank men for their money. These signs come primarily in three genres that include their past dating record, how they order food and how the date ends.

1.) They date a lot of people and continually talk about it. When you ask them out they will say "yes" but then talk about how much other guys spend on them, the best date they ever had, and the exciting times they had. They try and prompt you to pay a lot of money to compete for their affection.