What is Age Appropriate Sex Education for Kindergarten?

Who Should Teach Your Child About Sex?

When this subject was brought up by Barack Obama, I decided to do a little survey. The main stream media has talked this subject out and brought in a bunch of child psychologists to explain the situation. Working at Associated Content, I have access to a tons of parents with opinions on
 the subject. So I ran a little thread in the forum to get some input from the local experts.

The overwhelming response was there is no proper age appropriate sex education course for kindergarten age children. There is an age appropriate way to respond the sexuality questions from kindergarteners. If they are curious, then answer their questions in an understandable manner. Attempting to teach the subject when they are not curious can cause them to become curious about the subject before they are ready.

Since kids are naturally curious there are plenty of opportunities to explain to them that privates are private. You don't go grabbing someone else's privates and someone else shouldn't be grabbing your privates. Dealing with other issues like why are girls built different that boys can be handled efficiently without bringing it up in class. Doing that would start a show and tell session in class or on the playground soon after the difference was announced. Besides, properly explaining the difference to the curious child, one on one, will lead to fairly accurate information being passed to the remainder of the class.

Parental involvement at this early age is highly encouraged, provided the parents are somewhat on the same page. Judging from the responses in the forum, mothers seem to be better suited for educating children on this subject than the fathers. While the fathers did have an idea of how to handle this type of education, most started with, "Oh My God!! He/She asked..." This lack of a poker face would indicate to the kid that there might just be something more to the story than dear old dad is telling. So dads, if you are going to try and handle your end of "The Talk, version one," plan ahead or just say, "ask your mother."

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sex ED should give informatio about the age to do sex and harms of it to the child becoz belo 21 is the age to grow for a boy if they indulge it will not good for their health.it is time to tell them about sex to every boy and girls also.i m also do not more about it . I can give u real example britney spear was very beautiful but now she is looking unhealthy this is just becoz of doing sex in the age of 16 with her boy friend i love her by heart as she is good and good wishes to her bye.........

Posted on 02/01/2008 at 12:02:55 AM

I believe Mommy2Lots was talking about younger children. Five year-old's most certainly don't need to be taught about contraception. Schools should indeed reinforce what is or is not taught at home, but we're talking about kindergarten.

Posted on 12/15/2007 at 4:12:59 PM

I disagree with mommy2lots. Not every child is priviledged to have parents give them "the talk." Schools should reinforce what is or isn't taught at home. I recently did a survey and you would be amazed at how many teenagers 18 and older don't know have of the things about safe sex and pregnancy prevention. And then there are those parents who want to talk to their kids but can't. I do believe however, that sex education classes should be taught by professionals and every grade level should be age and developmentally appropriate. They should also send pamphlets home telling parents what their kids will be learning so that parents' "talk" can be aligned with what they learn at school.

Posted on 12/05/2007 at 8:12:00 PM

Well, my nephew has clearly started thinking about sex. Not having it of course. He was told us that he knows what sex is, "When you take your clothes off and kiss." We merely told him that he is too young to have sex and should engage in it until marriage. I think a parent's relationship plays a major role in how they will react when their child brings up the big "Uh-oh!" You know how much your child can handle and you know how to give it to them. Just be calm and understand that if you don't tell them, they'll get if from elsewhere and chances are it will be the wrong information.

Posted on 12/05/2007 at 8:12:00 PM

Yikes, kindergarten?! My live-in cousin-son who's four doesn't get too much into asking questions about sex (thank God) but he's an extraordinary communicator who is not afraid to ask questions - even the ones he's not supposed to ask, say, in public. I'm sure most kids are as carefree. I know this touchy time in his life is coming soon for all of us....

Posted on 09/23/2007 at 3:09:00 AM

I think that some knowledge at that age is fine but really Sex Education? what is wrong with today's society. This are little kids let them be little kids. Just another way the schools are tryign to force our kids into being little adults instead of little kids.

Posted on 08/15/2007 at 12:08:00 PM

kindergarten? i dont even remember what i "knew" about sex back then. i think nothing.

Posted on 08/14/2007 at 8:08:00 AM

Good article and interesting approach to the continued debate Dallas.

Posted on 08/13/2007 at 10:08:00 AM

hmmmm wonder who those quotes were from? LOL great job Dallas. looking forward to reading more like this one. Makes my day more pleasurable.

Posted on 08/09/2007 at 11:08:00 AM

Sex Ed is a touchy issue. Let's not forget the girls of my mother's generation, who got their periods and thought they were bleeding to death. Teaching kids what sex is may actaully prevent unintentional pregnancy- otherwise an ignorant girl may not know what it is that leads to conception. There's a fine line between information and too much information too soon, though. The best course of action is to keep the lines of communication open, and clearly relay your moral standards to your children.

Posted on 08/09/2007 at 10:08:00 AM

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