I tell many of my
friends and well-wishers that I am an admirer of exceptional female beauty. The question is which
beauty am I admiring and why? I am admiring any female
beauty visible to me somewhere. I am admiring it because it is
free and safe. In the
present times, one is able to see female
beauty in many places. It could be in buses, trains, flights, aerodromes, pubs, cinemas, colleges,
fashion shows, newspapers, Internet, sports events, organizations, residential places, temples, hospitals and what not. Traditionally oriented females wear formal
dresses and look dignified and modern girls and
women put on exhibitionistic attire and attract satires from the
male folks. In this scenario, what does an admirer of female
beauty like me do? It is really pitiable because he never talks with any one of those beauties visible or accessible to him. Admiration means a lofty feeling of high regard and reveration for a thing of
beauty or a being of exceptional quality. When one considers female
beauty extraordinary and divine, one fails to approach or appreciate it in a realistic manner. I mean he neither shares those feelings of joy with the girls and
women he loves or other people that like to know something about admiration of female beauty. He remains a dumb fellow in a way. He thinks that the people of
beauty he admires may ridicule him if he expresses his genuine feelings of appreciation to them. Another problem I found in my life is that the moment I say that a particular girl is very beautiful; she is sitting in the Himalayas and considering me a worthless bloke. She remains simple and honest as long as nobody appreciates her
beauty but she changes her mentality the moment one praises her greatly. This realization really hurt me. I liked many girls and
women but never appreciated them personally with the fears of known nature. They treat me like somebody whose duty is
running after female
beauty not minding whether they find him considerable or not. That is not the case with
natural beauty. If I like a flower, I would go to it and kiss it. If I like a lamb, I would
play with it for some time. If I like honey, I would
buy it and drink it to my heart's content. If I like a cute girl or boy, I would appreciate them on the spot without any fear. I need not be subject to any apprehensions or inhibitions to express my sense of affection or delight to somebody who is below 12 years because they don't carry irrational egos with their bodies. Ego is a villain within us. It stops us from earning and retaining the friendship or
love of sensitive and admirable human beings around us. We feel very low and forsaken when nobody is interested in us or worries about our daily activities. We feel very proud and snobbish when many start admiring us for no reason or some reason. In both the cases, we fail to treat our familiar and dear ones in a right manner. We curse everybody when they don't make us happy with their company and we distance many when they approach us with a pure
heart of friendship or love. I saw many beautiful girls and ladies in many places in very fashionable
dresses showcasing their social status or preferred mode of public appearance. They like if many look at them because it is a gesture of instant recognition to their beauty. They don't like anybody commenting about their
beauty because those words may hurt them. This means that many enjoy good looks of others at them but not the words targeting them. This happens when the girl or lady concerned has no appreciable character as a person or a professional. When somebody has a great character, he or she can boldly accept and answer the comments from others. For example, if some guy comments at a beautiful girl, walking by a road in some public place like, "What a horny piece", the girl may nicely come to that chap and remark, "Why can't you say it a bit aloud so that everybody can hear it? It is a good compliment and I like to share the joy with all here". Only somebody with great character and bold spirit can do like this because she knows that she is a good girl in every respect and so she behaves proudly and talks boldly with anybody that appreciates or criticizes her publicly or privately. I don't think that a prostitute can handle the above situation like the girl imagined does. It is because a prostitute always thinks that her profession is not socially accepted one and so everybody hates her as a person or service provider. The central point in my opinion expressed here is that beautiful girls and ladies in the
present generation should try to be great in their character and temperament also. All
boys and
men are not rogues and womanizers and so there is nothing wrong in behaving well with as many
boys and
men as possible. This creates a
healthy environment in our society. In such ambience of human interaction and behavior, a sensitive dreamer and a dedicated admirer of female
beauty like me can appreciate any visible female
beauty on the spot just like that if the impulse is very strong in him. Thus the vast number of beauties living in our familiar society can live happily and proudly. Being admired and appreciated by many is not a joke. Beautiful girls and
women should be good and receptive toward
boys and
men to attract live compliments from them. Otherwise there won't be much difference between
photos and persons. The
photo of a
beauty can inspire a writer or an artist but it cannot enjoy the compliments from them because it is lifeless. A living person can enjoy compliments from many because she can think and feel and sense using her senses and applying her conscience when need be. Many
film actresses we know are not that beautiful and yet they are receiving huge fan mail and being admired by millions of people across the world. In many cases, it is the magic of make-up and the logic of
love for the inaccessible. Every boy and man is concentrating his looks on them only because they are public property in a sense and so anybody can say or write something about them. Extraordinary beauties we see daily in our real lives are not getting any feedback about their
beauty from us only because we consider them untouchable and so remain dumb burying our notions of compliments in our hearts only. We can see a delightful and enjoyable society if beautiful girls and
women change their fixed mentality about
men in the world and good
boys and gentlemen start appreciating visible female
beauty in a refined and formal manner. If
boys and girls and
men and
women stop admiring each other honestly and frankly, where is place for real happiness in this world? Am I right? You would certainly agree with me after a bit of thought over this informal discussion of a familiar international phenomenon. Please write back something to me or at least tell anybody you know to read this blog of mine. Please don't do it if you don't like this blog at all. I mean I expect honesty from you also!
