Why are People so Rude to Those with Opposing Opinions?

By SummerIsComing, published Sep 12, 2007
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I've been called a slag, hag, drag, loser, dork, fag, moron, A blank blank word, F word, B word, C word and S word... I've been called it all... and for what? A goddamn opinion.

How many people here WHO ACTUALLY HAVE WRITTEN on review sites, blog sites or writing sites have gotten into full blown heated wars over your opinion? I have.

How many of you have had arrogant cuss words or discriminating words thrown at you because of a piece?
I have.

Recently I came across something disturbing, and usually I don't come across these types of things, but seeing how Associated Content allows for non user comments, many people will visit my pages and write God awful things for me to view, and for others to view. They feel they have this power of no one figuring out their identity because they are non users. (If taken the time though any hacker could find you-if they cared enough)

Associated Content however gives you options to erase the note, or block the user. I sometimes will leave it up, just to show my fellow members just what types of people there are out there roaming the net. I do however wish this site was set up in ways to where you have to become a member to leave a comment. At least that way I could email the person and give em' a piece of my mind.

I'm sure others would disagree though, and say leave it as is... so be it. As of now, that is how it is, and it looks like that is how it will stay.

The problem is not people having opposite opinions, the problem is the way others talk to one another. One can have a different opinion, but there is no need for lashing out with demeaning names, or cuss words.

I can guarantee that in 2 months if I look back at this piece there will be one non-member who thinks he/she has balls by writing a nasty comment... you only have balls if you write a nasty comment backed up with a click-able page for me to contact you. Then maybe I will give you props... even still though, you're an A blank blank word.

One can have a different opinion and leave a comment that is professional, and one way to start such a comment is 'good though, but I have to disagree...'

Why are People so Rude to Those with Opposing Opinions?

Couldn't of said it etter myself

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I agree with the gist of your article. But I wonder why you object to people leaving "cuss words" in their comments when they disagree with you, when you obviously use them yourself? Perhaps you are referring only to them being used for name-calling, not for mere emphasis. My personal choice is to not curse at all, and I usually prefer not to read such either. Please consider that you are condoning by use what you condemn in others. Just a thought. But on the whole, because of the proliferation of blogs and AC itself, I find your article very timely and well written.

Posted on 12/22/2007 at 1:12:50 PM

 
Err... that should be 'capital' not 'capitol'. You must obviously be one stupid, retarded, c**t (and I must be an imbecilic, idiotic, d**k.)

Posted on 11/24/2007 at 10:11:00 AM

 
We did a sketch about this like 6 months ago. It's called "Anonymous Ass." http://revver.com/watch/268699/ Only leaving the link cause it's relevant... not to spam. Great article! You got my digg!

Posted on 11/20/2007 at 11:11:00 AM

 
WTF*@&*@( S)!*# (A$$!!#$)%$#@

Posted on 11/20/2007 at 10:11:00 AM

 
You've hit the nail squarely on the head. I formerly haunted a sports forum and the local newspaper site. The amount of juvenile negativity and name-calling was atrocious. I truly believe that some folks simply get a kick out of tormenting and abusing others merely because they can, there are no consequences to their actions. I'm of the other persuasion; disagree, but without malice. Life is so much nicer when you live it by showing courtesy to your fellow man.

Posted on 09/25/2007 at 12:09:00 PM

 
Thanks for stopping in guys! I was totally thinking there would be a comment in here that was ...mean. ;)

Posted on 09/14/2007 at 7:09:00 AM

 
I totally agree with you, the internet is just full of angry and cowardly people who hide behind computer screens. Like you said one can disagree and give their opinions without being nasty about it, but some people are just immature and get their kicks by being jerks.

Posted on 09/13/2007 at 6:09:00 PM

 
You forgot "YOU SUCK, MAN!" Great article otherwise.

Posted on 09/13/2007 at 2:09:00 PM

 
Sing it, Sister! I love how you always tell it like it is! Awesome article! :) MZ

Posted on 09/13/2007 at 11:09:00 AM

 
Thanks for sharing this.

Posted on 09/13/2007 at 12:09:00 AM

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