Is Our Nation Going to Pot? Transgender Bathrooms at Ivy League Schools

Imagine for a moment that your daughter is graduating high school and looking forward to her enlightening college years. After helping her study and work hard through grade school and high school and spending countless
 hours helping her prepare for the ACTs and filling out all those applications for the best schools, your wait is over. On a fateful day, a letter arrives in your mailbox, addressed to your genius of a daughter. It’s a letter from the esteemed Harvard University, and your pride and joy has been accepted there. 

Ecstatic and excitedly, you spend the summer helping her pack for the trip. You arrive on the beautiful campus, eager and anxious to deliver your young lady to the dorm’s door to begin her new Ivy League life. After unpacking and meeting with the registrar, the dean, and spending your annual salary in the bookstore, it’s time for a pit stop. You walk into the closest restroom, among the other eager and anxious mothers. Just then, you see him. He walks in nonchalantly, as if everything about him being in there is natural and normal. Looking around, you begin to notice that there are more hims here than you had first recognized. In silent disgust and modest terror, you leave the restroom immediately, checking the door on your way out. There is no recognizable Men’s or Women’s placard – only a sign that reads “GNS” in large white letters with an engraved descriptor, “Gender Non-Specific Facility.” A semester’s worth of nightmares has just begun for your daughter in this strange new place, where a campus generally known as an icon of human intelligence suddenly seems intolerably foolish. 

 
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wow i can't even begin to tell you how angry this article makes me. I'm in a gender studies class, and not that it was ever an issue before, but i realize that being transexual or gender confused or anything like that is realy no big deal. They were just born to the wrong bodies, its really not fair to be so closed minded. So what if they have there own bathrooms? Fucking stay in your own bathroom and get over it. We live in the 21st century, I don't know where your at. You are a fucking rediculous asshole who can't accept somthing that is different. I'm speaking from a straight person's point of view. I don't see anything remotley wrong with this and I think you should get over it and get whatever the hell is shoved up your ass ut of there.

Posted on 06/04/2009 at 3:06:15 PM

Sorry, I ran out of space in the other text balloon, the end of the sentence is 'to hurt others.'

Posted on 11/09/2008 at 12:11:43 AM

The first time I went to college, in the late 80's I had to drop out because of the harassment I received because I'm Transgender. The worst, scariest time for me on campus was the bathrooms. It took me 10 years after I dropped out to work up enough nerve to go back and finally earn my degree. I wish there had been bathrooms like the ones mentioned in the article on my campus they would have saved me a lot of heartache. Also, I don't know what 'agenda' the author is talking about. The only agenda I had was to go to my classes and graduate, The Christians on campus seemed to have an agenda when it came to me though. I was constantly finding Bible verses in my bag or coat pocket, once there was one spray painted on my car. If the author wants to act as if she is a moral authority, then I can only hope that she will start by finding Christs morality and compassion. Instead of taking her own prejudices and fears, dressing them up in a bible and calling it righteous when she uses that

Posted on 11/08/2008 at 11:11:00 PM

In my anger over the article, I didn't realize the silly mistake at the bottom. The last phrase should say "for *denying* people their rights"..the "not" shouldn't be there at all. I guess I was typing too fast. Sorry!

Posted on 02/23/2008 at 6:02:39 PM

Wow...I knew there were close-minded idiots out there, but every time I'm reminded of their existence it makes me sick and angry. Obviously you've never met or spoken to a trandgendered individual and heard about the horror stories many face from those who do not understand a thing. Simply the fact that any transgendered person is brave enough and comfortable enough with themselves to use whatever bathroom they feel like says a lot. I myself am not transgender, but my partner is, and having to hear about his struggles in public high school and how important it is for him to use the men's bathroom, reading an ignorant article like this just reminds me of how many problems there are in this country - not because people are being "immoral" by allowing GNS bathrooms, but because others are being immoral for not denying people their rights.

Posted on 02/23/2008 at 6:02:20 PM

We make a big deal about the separation of His and Hers , and that's the way it should be . "Familiarity breeds contempt " and sometimes lack of respect especially when taking care of personal business or fixing your face .

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 8:01:51 PM

how about removing all the bathrooms and let everybody go in the bush...heh heh heh, then we'll be able to let who really is transgender..guys who wanna be female,,you really gotta whip it out...

Posted on 01/25/2008 at 10:01:47 AM

I couldn't bring myself to finish reading this article ... the number '2' kept floating in my mind. No, it wasn't a reference to what you do in the bathroom, it represents the percentage of the population that is born with 'sexual ambiguities' - this can mean anything from hormonal imbalances to mixed sexual organs. Now, unless you want to say that 1 out of 50 kids is just damned by God, you had better be willing to make allowances for people who are born different. What if that was your child?

Posted on 04/23/2007 at 5:04:00 AM

We had unisex restrooms when I was in college almost 25 years ago, and they weren't a new phenomenon even then.

Posted on 02/12/2007 at 6:02:00 PM

This article is painfully overdramatic. They don't have communal showers; there are still stalls, which is hardly any worse than using your bathroom at home. I'm not going to bother to debate because I'm not sure there's a logical argument to be made with someone who thinks that God is worried about whether men and women use the same bathrooms, but next time please tone it down. I am quite certain that this isn't one of the signs of the apocalypse!

Posted on 02/12/2007 at 4:02:00 PM

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