Do Pets Grieve the Death of a Companion?

Pets Can Experience Heartbreak with Death of Their Friend

By pyewacket, published Aug 17, 2007
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Many people are often all too well aware that if a pet owner dies, and that pet is given to another family member to take care of, they will notice that the pet, whether it'd be a dog or cat, will demonstrate a period of loss for its former owner. The pet may be lethargic, and no doubt could be viewed as going through a period of depression and even grief every bit as powerful as when a person experiences the death of a loved one.

What most people may not realize however, is that pets will demonstrate the same grief if another pet member dies, especially in a multi-pet household. Pets can develop ties and bonds of friendship between each other every bit as strong and as powerful as we humans can. I know this to be all too true, for within the past few months, several of my friends who have a number of pets and have had one of their beloved pets die, have told me that the surviving pet or pets, have very much sensed a lost in their lives. They have told me that their remaining pets have demonstrated such behavior as from going from room to room as if in search for their missing friend, to acting completely lethargic and listless, to outright vocal sounds similar to wailing, howling or whimpering.

I can also testify to the grief an animal can exhibit when one of their "pals" dies. I've had pets, particularly cats nearly all my life, so there have indeed been many deaths of my pets during the years, and one never gets really used to the death of their pet companion. But one incident has stood out more in my memory than anything else in all these years.

Do Pets Grieve the Death of a Companion?

Photo of Tommy, Mickey's pet companion and friend who died

Credit: MELANIE NEER

Copyright: MELANIE NEER

Takeaways
  • Pets can demonstrate the symptoms of grief when their pet companion and friend dies
  • I know firsthand how one of my cats grieved for his companion when he died
Did You Know?
Pets show every bit as much emotion and are sensitive to the feelings of remorse when their pet friend and buddy dies, every bit as much as a human does when someone dies in the family
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That may have been my start of not liking cats, who strangely usually feel comfortable around me, even scardy cats. Anyway, I saw "pyewacket" on someone's comments and stopped by because it reminded me of a long ago neighbor's cat named, pyewacket.

Posted on 09/15/2007 at 6:09:00 PM

 
The cat that stayed off furniture jumped on the table just before my son-in-law's Mom fell on the table. Dead from a heart attack. The family had this cat for many years and it was an indoor/outdoor cat. The next day the cat got hit by a car and died. My son-in-law believed the wanted to be with Marie. I guess I always believed cats grieved. Seeing her cat on the middle of the bed after a great Aunt's wake, I went to pet it and comfort it, which earned me a handfull of scratches. That cat had always been friendly before so it shocked me.

Posted on 09/15/2007 at 6:09:00 PM

 
Oh, how sad. I was really upset to read of how your cat died and then how Mickey was overcome by depression. Cats feel just as we do. There's no denying the fact. Sophie

Posted on 08/23/2007 at 1:08:00 PM

 
I know for a fact that they grieve. My two cats grieved for their playmate that was hit by a car.. back when I was able to have cats. One of them I let go to a friend when I was thinking about moving and he wouldn't eat. He grieved for me, and the lady brought him back to me. I moved him with me when I moved, and he couldn't be in the house because of my son in laws allergies and he ran away to my old home-place and lived with my room mate. Smart cat to find his way back to the old house.

Posted on 08/21/2007 at 1:08:00 PM

 
I know for a fact that they grieve. My two cats grieved for their playmate that was hit by a car.. back when I was able to have cats. One of them I let go to a friend when I was thinking about moving and he wouldn't eat. He grieved for me, and the lady brought him back to me. I moved him with me when I moved, and he couldn't be in the house because of my son in laws allergies and he ran away to my old home-place and lived with my room mate. Smart cat to find his way back to the old house.

Posted on 08/21/2007 at 1:08:00 PM

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