Matthew 19:9: Porneia: a Response to the Divorce Between Randy and Paula White

By Charisse Van Horn, published Aug 26, 2007
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In my previous article, Randy and Paula White: Divorce at Without Walls International Church I discussed 1 Corinthians 7:12-15, and the Scriptures that state if an unbelieving spouse wants to leave a believing spouse, that they may leave.

I believe that this is a picture of a root in the rise of divorce in the church today. However, in this article, I want to address: Matthew 19: 1-9. In this passage, Jesus is being asked the question if it is lawful to divorce a woman due to acts of misbehavior. Here is the text in King James Version, (by the way, the King James Version is in the public domain, so you can freely repeat, redistribute, record, etc. any text that you like in the King James Version: other versions hold copyright, so use them with caution). Ok, back to the article, Matthew 19:1-9

Mat 19:1 And it came to pass, [that] when Jesus had finished these sayings, he departed from Galilee, and came into the coasts of Judaea beyond Jordan;

Mat 19:2 And great multitudes followed him; and he healed them there.

Mat 19:3 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?

Mat 19:4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made [them] at the beginning made them male and female,

Mat 19:5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

Mat 19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

Mat 19:7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?

Mat 19:8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.

Mat 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except [it be] for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

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Here's some great information for our friends who say it is not right for us to judge: http://www.feasite.org/Tracts/fbcjudge.htm

Posted on 11/14/2007 at 9:11:00 PM

 
To all the believers, I just want to say now is the time that we should be interceeding for the body of christ. The enemy is pulling out all the stops; using all his devices to attack the body. We need not focus on the personal situation between Pastors Randy and Paula White, but be aware of the enemies devices and fight back through prayer, and uplift the man and woman of God. I, J. Smith declare war against the enemy, and crush his head. We the body of Christ are victorious over all the enemies devices.

Posted on 11/13/2007 at 11:11:00 AM

 
thanks for the information. Would you say that a christian who married to an unsave and did not know the person was based on the whole attitude and behaviour of the person. Few months after the person change the real person began to show up in many different ways. The person even admits he is a sinner which he never admit before. Please give your view.

Posted on 11/02/2007 at 9:11:00 PM

 
I am so concern, that this is even an issue, we are all part of God's body, if one member suffers the whole body suffers, and yes we all are human and some times may walk in the flesh, We have to remember the word of God says that His spirit will not dwell with man always, so be that as it may, Why don't we as believers start interceding for our brothers and sisters in Christ, praying for strenght in their area of weekness, Please remember THE WORD OF GOD SAIDS LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND LOVE THE LORD WITH ALL YOUR HEART MIND AND SOUL, AND ALSO WE HAVE TO FORGIVE THAT IS VERY IMPORTANT. WE ALL HAVE FALLEN SHORT OF THE GRACE OF GOD, AND WE ALL ARE SINNERS, AND IF WE SAY THAT WE ARE NOT WE ARE A LIAR. So to all my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ lets pray for Pastor Paula and let God handle the rest in other words Let God be the Judge.May God bless all who read this response and give them the Godly kind of understanding which surpassess all other . In Jesus Name I

Posted on 10/31/2007 at 12:10:00 PM

 
I hear Randy White has been allegedly tied to Pastor Melissa Scott, and, he has been spotted at the front row of her Ministry many Sundays. Then again, Paul Crouch Jr. and her have been spotted together secretly in Costa Rica at TBN property.

Posted on 10/30/2007 at 2:10:00 PM

 
Another thing,that bothers me. Some of these ministers have a mouth that will not quit. They go on and on and on and it really sounds so anointed and good. But, even I had my doubts before all of this. Some of it just did not make sense, and I knew what they said was not inspired by God. Now, how are we supposed to believe anything they say?? I pray to God, "please let me be Yours and You be mine and show me the truth." I pray against all lies, delusions, deceptions, counterfeits, and false teaching, unholy alliances, and soul ties. Well, I'm alone, but I'm really glad to be. A "season" for a marriage. No, I do not think so. Charles Capps is the best - pure Word of God!

Posted on 10/22/2007 at 3:10:00 PM

 
I have not been following Christendom lately, rather I've just now heard of these news events regarding the Whites, Roberts, et al. I am surprised that I am feeling disillusioned, because I have been personally slandered and abused by prominent ministers,who I personally KNOW are liars, so I was ALREADY pretty disillusioned. But, I feel very sad for God. Sweet God has to put up with all this. And, I feel sad for the devoted Christians who are not rich but STAY in unhappy marriages, because they are honorable people. I know some who deserve a medal of honor BIG TIME. I hope these honorable ones are rewarded in Heaven. Yes, I am very disillusioned, perplexed and sad.

Posted on 10/22/2007 at 3:10:00 PM

 
The Bible clearly states, "...mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them...For they that are such serve not our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple" (Romans 16:17-18). If we as the Body of Christ don't hold people in ministry accountable, we end up allowing homosexuals, pedophiles, those who commit adultery, liars, thieves and every other immoral lifestyle to go unchallenged and remain in ministry. Oh! That's what is currently going on! I apologize for suggesting that there be holiness and integrity in the lives of church leaders, after all, that may require them to practice what they preach! WOW WHAT A NOVAL IDEA! While you are welcome to disagree, this is just my opinion, and I feel it would surely give more credibility to the Church if we followed the Word of God!

Posted on 10/19/2007 at 11:10:00 PM

 
Paula has been rumored to be having an affair with Bishop Rick Hawkins. True or not is not the point. The point is, there are problems that need to be addressed in the White's marriage before they continue in ministry. This is a total shame on the Body of Christ and they need help, not another ministry appointment! How can either one of them, ever again tell anyone else to "hang on," "don't give up," "work through it," "God will make a way" "believe for your unsaved spouse, " etc. if they don't do it themselves. (Just a thought!) As far as I am concerned, while God surely can and does forgive, there are no grounds for divorce between two people who are truly Christians. Even if there is adultery, there should be repentance and forgiveness. If both partners are truly Christians, neither should be a problem! Difficult? Definitely! Possible? Certainly! However, they should go to their spiritual leadership, or covering if they one. The Bible clearly states, "...mark them which cause

Posted on 10/19/2007 at 11:10:00 PM

 
First of all I am deeply saddened by the family crisis she is facing and have, and will continue to pray for her. However, I am also concerned about the embarrassment it has brought the to Kingdom of God that these things are being played out in public. Sure they are both human, but once you accept the calling into ministry, especially the office of Bishop or Pastor, there are certain requirements placed upon your life by God. If a person fails to meet the qualifications defined by the Apostle Paul in First Timothy and Titus for their office, they need to step down until things are corrected in their lives, lest they impart their own dysfunction to others. The first priority is always morality, then marriage, and then ministry! Even if they have to sell one of their $85,000 cars or $2,000,000 homes, or pass on that next planned cosmetic surgery, their marriages should come first! Paula and Randy need to take time away from the public spotlight of ministry and seek help and reconciliati

Posted on 10/19/2007 at 11:10:00 PM

 
Hi Mandy, I wish your post didn't cut off. Please feel free to pick up where you left off, I'm intrigued by the scenario so far. Thanks, Charisse

Posted on 09/26/2007 at 9:09:00 PM

 
Nice teaching Charisee. What do you think of this. A friend of mine loved some-one very dearly about 20 yrs ago. Upon her conversion ie being Born Again, she was advised from the pulpit to dump this guy who loved her and she had loved for years without determining or knowing his spiritual state. They lose contact. Years later she marries a Christian who is a good guy but had mis-represented himself to her in terms of his background. She is very hurt by this deception and some-how through the years has not been able to give herself fully to him as she often feels embrassed by his behavior. Fast forward, 20 yrs later out of the clear blue sky she runs into her ex. She had never stopped loving him and he had never stopped loving her. He kept looking for her in every one he met. 20 yrs later their lives have mirrored each other closely and they are like each other's half. She is the love of his life . Should this Christian woman stay with this man who she is not compatible with, lied to he

Posted on 09/26/2007 at 2:09:00 PM

 
I think so many people start off in unbiblical marriages, basically two unbelievers get married. When one has a spiritual awakening, a long journey begins, hopefully both will end up on the same road, but I think many don't, and one may try to become "super spiritual" to match the other's faith, but in reality, they are "working" it, and have never had a true conversion. I think that is why there is such a high amount of divorce. Too many Christians were unequally yoked from the start, simply they were unsaved when they got married.

Posted on 09/22/2007 at 4:09:00 AM

 
I think we all need God's grace at these times. How can we claim to love God and treat divorce as ordinary when God says I hate divorce.May God save us from all subtle attempts of satan to bring His name down.

Posted on 09/20/2007 at 10:09:00 AM

 
Ok, I have stayed away from posting the pure garbage the White's are into. If anyone wants to know for themselves, just go here: http://www.tboforums.com/index.php/forums/viewforum/30/

Posted on 09/18/2007 at 7:09:00 PM

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