Living in Harmony: Dealing with Dreadful Neighbors

By Sheila Webster-Heard, published Jun 11, 2006
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Having bad neighbors is unavoidable. From the nicest suburbs to the shabbiest areas of the city, the possibility that you'll have an annoying person living in close proximity to you is very high.

The fact that neighbors sometimes can't get along is a common people problem and you'd better know how to manage people; If you don’t, you may very well be on your way to the big house.

Let's say you worked hard all day and have to come home to the latest pimp movie soundtrack pulsating from your ceiling; You may not be able to keep your tired self from charging toward that upstairs apartment, round house kicking the door down and bashing that surround sound system in with a baseball bat. There are alternatives, you know. Check out a list of my tips that just might save you from obtaining your new, pretty cell block number.

Know Who You’ll Be Renting From

Before renting out an apartment, always check out the rental agency or landlord you'll be renting from. Get online and do some research. Online, there are a few apartment rating websites and if you must, (and trust me, you must) talk to people who already live there. A majority of the time, it's simple. Bad management does even worse business. There's always a vacancy because no one wants to live there. In my opinion, one of the best things you can do when apartment hunting, is get a referral from someone else, preferably a friend. Okay, so you don't have any friends; again, check out the place as thoroughly as possible before you make a decision that can aggravate you for the entire length of your lease. 

Move with Caution, Think Before Acting

If you fell to your knees in praise when you saw the apartment, moved in and didn't research your landlord, more power to you. Your neighbors might be wonderful. That's great!

Living in Harmony: Dealing with Dreadful Neighbors

Living In Harmony: Dealing With Dreadful Neighbors

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Takeaways
  • Research your landlord
  • Document the dates and times of disturbances
  • Concentrate on repairing credit for future home purchase
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Really good perspective here! I also agree that going to neighbors directly may not always be the smartest thing to do. Perhaps in a different time. But it seems that today our society is so volatile that the only way to do things is in an effective, yet "passive aggressive" approach. Sure, it may seem like the coward's way out. But alerting landlords of unruly behavior is really the only way to communicate with property management about what's going on on the premises.

Posted on 11/04/2007 at 10:11:00 AM

 
Perfect balance of points made in this article - And reassuring to know that my gut instinct in dealing with difficult neighbors runs along the right track! Thank you.

Posted on 07/10/2006 at 1:07:00 PM

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