How to Deal with a Bad Neighbor in an Apartment Community

When Neighbors Don't Play Well in the Sandbox

By Kay Ray, published Sep 12, 2007
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I recently moved to an apartment community where my family and I rent a townhouse apartment. Most of my neighbors keep to themselves while others are friendly and say hello in passing. An apartment community generally houses numerous people, and the chance of having a bad neighbor is fairly high, but fortunately, the majority of my neighbors are nice people who just want to live and let live. Like anywhere else, there is at least one bad neighbor in every neighborhood, and my apartment community is no exception.

Unlike housing additions and subdivisions where people own their own property, apartment communities have specific rules and regulations. If you find yourself having to deal with a bad neighbor, management will usually take care of the problem - if they truly care about keeping residents happy. I found myself having to deal with a bad neighbor recently, and this bad neighbor tried to tell my son where he could and could not ride his skateboard. The following information explains my personal experience as well as what you should do if you end up having to deal with a bad neighbor. One bad neighbor doesn't have to spoil the whole bunch!

The Sidewalk Isn't Rented


The man who told my son he couldn't skateboard on a particular sidewalk in our apartment community began his bullying by telling my son that if he allowed him to skateboard on the sidewalk in question, he would personally be responsible if my son got hurt - as if it was any of this man's business in the first place. When I found this out I wanted to deal with this problem immediately, and I had my son speak to the office manager. They told him he could skateboard anywhere he wanted within our apartment community.

Did You Know?
According to a U.S. Census Bureau survey of property owners and managers, between 1995 and 1996 there were approximately 200,585,000 apartment homes in the United States, not including government housing.
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I've never like renting apartments because of situations just like that. I get very irritated with bad neighbors.

Posted on 09/20/2007 at 4:09:00 PM

 
Wow M.S. That manager sounds like a terrible woman, and it sounds like a very family "unfriendly" community. If I lived there with kids I'd be looking to move. And people wonder why kids get into trouble. Geesh. They can't even play.

Posted on 09/18/2007 at 7:09:00 PM

 
It's not only neighbors that can cause hostility. Our manager insists that children are not allowed to play outside of their small narrow patio on apartment grounds. If they do she prompty turns on the sprinklers.Sounds like a law suit waiting to happen doesn't it? Great article.

Posted on 09/18/2007 at 7:09:00 PM

 
Some people can be so scary! Great article

Posted on 09/18/2007 at 12:09:00 PM

 
Great article! I've had my share of... let's say... less than perfect neighbors. :)

Posted on 09/17/2007 at 10:09:00 AM

 
Great post. You've reminded me how much I am glad I'm not in an apartment any more. I truly appreciate my house and my neighbors.

Posted on 09/14/2007 at 7:09:00 PM

 
I would be annoyed by kids playing on the stairs inside the building too, but my son and his friends were 20 - 30 feet away from this guy's place. If he had come outside and said they were too loud and to please hold it down, that would have been one thing, but he said it would be HIS fault if they got hurt on the sidewalk. It was never an issue of noise. The guy was just a bully who liked to complain. The office people said he's in there every other week complaining about something. For those who don't like the normal sounds of kids playing on skateboards, on bikes, playing ball, or whatever, move to a senior community or buy a piece of property in the middle of no where. You won't have to hear the sounds of kids or neighbors again. Those who have genuine complaints, take it up with management.

Posted on 09/14/2007 at 12:09:00 PM

 
On the flip side, I know how annoying it is when a family moves next to you who has noisy obnoxious children. One Friday night (and I used to have graduate school on Saturdays), these obnoxious 12-year-olds were running around the building, up and down stairs, etc. I yelled at them to stop...even though I am not "renting" the stairs outside, I have a right to relative peace and quiet.

Posted on 09/14/2007 at 12:09:00 PM

 
Luckily my neighbors now are angels but I've had some real busters in the past. Great work!

Posted on 09/13/2007 at 10:09:00 PM

 
Our previous next door neighbor refused to shut their door normally. They ALWAYS slammed it; hard. Since I had shelves on the wall opposite their door, with photo frames on the shelves, they kept breaking everything I put there. I begged them. I bribed them. I cried at them. NOTHING WORKED. If anything that slammed the door even harder. I complained to the office and they basically told me to get over it. It was horrible. I was so glad when they finally moved out.

Posted on 09/13/2007 at 7:09:00 PM

 
Great topic! This is such a common problem.

Posted on 09/13/2007 at 2:09:00 PM

 
Great article. Hope you don't have any more problems with this "man". When I have a problem with someone like this and don't want to get myself in trouble with God by praying something bad will happen to him, I usually take a page from my late grandmother's book and pray that God will "bless" him (this time with a new apartment).

Posted on 09/12/2007 at 10:09:00 PM

 
Great article. This is a problem that many have to deal with.

Posted on 09/12/2007 at 3:09:00 PM

 
Sorry I should have mentioned the article is called 99p Murder.

Posted on 09/12/2007 at 2:09:00 PM

 
I have to add this. I cannot stand anyone who is a bully. The yobs on the old estate I used to live on used to terrorize all the younger kids, they where all older teenagers who spent most of their time drunk on drugs and were totally disgusting hoody's. I did an article about one incident and have just published it so you can understand what I am on about a bit better. The neighbours we had left a lot to be disired. I get on great with my new neighbours, no problems at all, and no trouble with their children either, in fact I really miss my neighbour who recently left especially her two children who were lovely!

Posted on 09/12/2007 at 2:09:00 PM

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