My New Fiance is Cracking Up! Does that Mean He Changed His Mind?

Dealing with the Guy that Acts like a Moron Between "Will You" and "I Do"

By Tiffany Ranae Widdifield, published Sep 20, 2007
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Lately, the big idiot you love has been more of a moron than usual. Just a few weeks ago, he was all tears and emotions when he finally dropped to his knee and, with stars in his eyes stopped the whole world to beg you for the honor of your hand in marriage. It was magical, and wonderful, and everything you dreamed it would be. Okay, maybe that's overdoing it, but the reality is that you earned his proposal. You laughed at his lame jokes, ignored his farts, trained him as much as a man can be trained at this point, and despite the fact that he's still a big idiot, you made him fall in love with you. He popped the question, and your world came to life like never before. The only problem is that he seems to have gotten lost in the confusion. Does this mean he's changed his mind? In a word, "no". Here's what's really going on:

When he proposed, your world came alive with possibilities. All of the dreams you have had for where this relationship and your life were heading have finally begun to look as if they might happen. Never again would you wonder if a man would ever have you for his wife. You could openly look forward to things like sex without regret, kids without shame, a home of your own, and a life partner to share things with for ever and always. And let's not forget the wedding, an entire day devoted to being and feeling beautiful, and happy and in love, a celebration of life and union, complete with friends, family, food, drink, dancing and presents, all capped off my a magical vacation to parts unknown designed to send you off into your new life, which will surely be filled with Champagne, Caviar, Dinner theater, and Dancing! Your dreams all began to come true the moment he hit his knee.

Takeaways
  • There is a big difference between a guy and a man.
  • Most guys get scared because they don't know what men are.
  • He's scared. Let him be!
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