Tips for Helping Seniors Move

Helping seniors move can by emotionally and physically trying. The first thing to consider is whether they want to move, or are being forced to move because of medical or financial reasons, or following the death of a spouse. Seniors that are moving into retirement or assisted living communities may feel resentful or depressed, so be patient.

The first thing I cannot stress enough, is that you maintain patience with whomever you are trying to move. Whether moving voluntarily or involuntarily, most times these homes hold a lot of dear memories for it's residents. Many seniors are creatures of habit. Bear in mind, that as people grow older, they tend to clean less and collect more. Sorting through boxes and rooms of what seems like endless junk has memories for these people, so be considerate when helping to pack. Each item may have a story attached, so be patient if they want to retell them.

Whittling down their treasures can be difficult, so have them make lists for things they need, things they would like to stay in the family and things that can be given to church or a donation center. Clean as you go and don't criticize their cleaning habits or the poor condition of their house or apartment. Upkeep can be difficult in old age and seniors may feel self conscious about the condition of their home. Suggest taking a picture in front of their home where all their memories were built.

Leading up to the move, start small. Gradually start talking about the big move more and more each day and let them discuss any worry or misgivings they have. Packing the whole house can seem daunting so do little tasks. Sorting through a sewing basket, or a bathroom cabinet may be all they have the energy for. Starting in a room that doesn't have strong sentimental attachment is best. Let them warm up to the idea of packing their treasures. Starting in the basement or attic is a big no-no. These rooms are full of pictures, art projects children did in school and wedding presents. Leave the tough rooms for towards the end.