He Keeps Looking at Porn - What's Wrong with My Marriage?

By Tiffany Ranae Widdifield, published Sep 26, 2007
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It's happened to nearly every woman. You are looking through the history on your computer for that website that you saw yesterday, whose name you know you'll remember when you see it, but you find the history is jammed full of picture pages from girlswithbetterbodiesthanyourwife.com. You don't have any teenage boys in the house, and you don't look at porn. No one but you and your husband uses the computer. A quick glance at the wastebasket reveals an abundance of used Kleenex and you have confirmation. Your man had been looking at online porn. What's the best way to handle that?

Takeaways
  • Fantasy is an important part of sexuality
  • Porn is to him, what romance novels are to you
  • His porn habit isn't about you
Did You Know?
Despite how many people say it's immoral, the porn industry is one of the largest industries in entertainment.
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i agree with CiCi 100%. this article made me angry.

Posted on 11/30/2007 at 1:11:00 PM

 
i'm am so sick of women being told to just accept everything a man does "because its in his nature." Its all about the man's needs and it doesn't matter how the woman feels, right? Screw our hurt feelings- we're just being irrational and delusional. Instead of having everyone think like a man, why not try and make men think better? I'd like to think that when a man puts on that ring and declares to love and want only you- that he means it. And to me, a fantasy affair in your head is just as deadly as a real one. The idea that my husband can have sex with our neighbor's wife in his head is just as hurtful as if he were doing it in reality. What a sexist world we live in. Its always just about catering to a man's desires and "needs." The emotions that women feel aren't even taken into consideration. We're just supposed to accept it, get over it. Women are the ones who have to wear the lingerie and use the toys and do the stripteases. Men don't do it nearly as often in return. What a path

Posted on 10/29/2007 at 8:10:00 PM

 
Well written article!However,We truly are as a society, not yet enlightened. We have such a long way to go. We have so seriously been brainwashed into alot of thinking that is so very oudated. Believe me, there are truly good men out there that believe a woman is worth so much more than that. After all, isn't it little girls that play with paper dolls? We choose to believe that which makes a sad situation acceptable.

Posted on 09/27/2007 at 12:09:00 PM

 
Women refuse to face the fact that all men wish that they had a generous supply of trophy women to make love with. If you knew the details of a rich mans lifestyle you will recognize my statement to be true.

Posted on 09/27/2007 at 10:09:00 AM

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