What to Do If Your Toddler Bites Another Child

Being a parent to a two or three year old is a daunting job. Trying to find ways to deal with a stubborn and willful little toddler can be exasperating. There are a myriad of behavior struggles with two and three year olds. But probably one of the most dreaded behavior problem parents sometimes are faced with is when their child bites another child. The best thing a parent can do if this happens with their child is to take action quickly. Here are some tips on how to stop your toddler from biting.

Check the child that was bitten.

Of course a parent's first reaction will be to make sure the child that was bitten is ok. But let your child be aware that that the attention is on the person who deserves it. Demonstrate sympathy and empathy in front of your child so he or she will understand the pain that they caused to the other child.

Take Immediate Action With Your Child

If you are present when your child bites another child, immediately intervene. It is best to be at eye level with your child, so bend down or squat so you are eye to eye. Firmly say that biting people is not allowed. Make sure your toddler knows you disapprove and that you are serious. You should follow by removing your child from the situation.

Promptly Speak with The Other Parents

If the parents are also present, immediately apologize. Reassure the parents that you will be disciplining your child and taking action to prevent this behavior from occurring again. Don't become defensive if the parents of the child that was bitten are angry and emotional. Words and comments about your child may be spoken in a manner that might hurt and upset you, but you need to let the parents emotionally vent if needed. Be quiet, and when they are done, simply say something to the effect that you understand, and then leave the situation calmly.

If the parents are not present, call them as soon as possible and apologize.

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