3 Ways to Have a Happy Relationship: Make Your Love Work

Love is something that mankind has been trying to explain since man first saw women. Many people have tried to explain love. Love is different for every individual and remains an unsolved mystery. Writers and poets explain love through words and are pretty successful, but love is something more than just words. It is like chasing down your shadow, you can get real close but never actually get to it. Love can last forever. I myself have experienced love and I'm still in love with my wife. There are a lot of problems that may arise when you are married, but there are many ways to work out the problems. To implement these solutions patience and work is needed.

Marriage is a combination of two people, with that comes a lot of compromising. There is a good and bad way of coming to a compromise. The compromise should not be impossible. For example, do not say things like the dishes better be that way all the time or only fold my clothe only like this. In the other hand, if the dishes are dirty for the fifth day or clothe is left in the ground let them know. Find a middle ground but do not settle with the bare minimum. In relationships people make the mistake of settling with what they have. I have told my wife not to settle for less than what she deserves. Some women get yelled at by the guy they are with and are happy when he does not yell as often. The guy should not be yelling to begin with. A lot of relationships end up abusive if continued in this path. Do not expect the person to work at it or change if they have not already done it within a year. A compromise should also be "split 50/50, do not say things like on Saturdays we have to watch only sports. If that were a real compromise the girl would watch whatever she wants as well and it will alternate between partners, each Saturday. The compromise has make sense to last.