How to Turbo-Charge a Woman's Attraction to You

Emily was a gorgeous 24 year old graduate student who modelled part-time to pay for expenses. As she traveled the world, from Australia to Zaire, men from all ages and walks of life would approach her. She was appalled at age 16 when a 44 year old man offered her a large sum of money to spend a whole week at some distant island. Over the years she was offered bribes of money, drugs, and possible fame if she would only go out on a date with the suitor. Emily wondered why some of these men thought that their expensive cars, watches, name, or lifestyle were the things that caused her to get weak in the knees. They weren't. All she wanted was a man who had a good heart, was not a door mat, had his own opinions, and did not see her outer beauty as a hindrance to getting to know her.

Millions of women from around the world find some of men's behavior rather bizarre. Why would a complete stranger offer them gifts or money? "They don't even know me," says Jenna, a scorching hot 21 year old college student.

Before we get into how to get a woman really attracted to you and then how to turbo-charge it so she's always thinking about you, let's talk about a few of the things that make the attraction go away. If you're a man and not a boy, then a woman assume's you're mature, got your life together, and that you are not needy on any level. Which means you won't act "creepy" or "weird" or even "sleazy". These are common words that I hear women use when I go strike up a conversation. Here's a recent one I had at a popular night club in Hollywood:

Me: What in the world did that guy say to you?

Cute Girl: Why do you want to know?

Me: So I know not to ever say it!

Cute Girl: (Giggles) Well, he said he wanted to take me home....what a sleaze-bag.

Me: Of course you said "no", I mean, I took one look at him and I wouldn't even go home with him, even if he had a PS3 and an Xbox on a big screen!

Cute Girl: Uh...yeah....you're an odd one.

Me: Yeah, but in a good way.

Cute Girl: Yeah, a good way.

Me: I had a woman walk up to me and tell me she wanted me to come home with her.

Cute Girl: Really?

Me: Yes, but I told her I have standards. I just don't home with anyone...besides she reminded me way too much of my 5th grade teacher.