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Please Help Us Get Our Little Daughter Back

By Nancy Hey, published Oct 15, 2007
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On April 3, 2005, Sabrina was born to Nancy Hey. She weighed 7 lb. 4 oz. Mother and baby were released from the hospital on April 5, 2005. On April 8, 2005, Ms. Hey took Sabrina to the pediatrician for a regular post-birth follow-up. The baby had lost weight (from 7lb. 4oz. to 6lb. 12oz.) so the pediatrician recommended supplementation with formula (Ms. Hey was nursing) and a follow-up visit several days later. Ms. Hey saw the pediatrician three more times after that initial visit.

Although Sabrina's weight only dropped to 6 lb. 10 oz., she did not exhibit a sustained weight gain. As a result, on that third visit, the doctor who saw Ms. Hey and Sabrina indicated that Sabrina's weight loss and lack of sustained weight gain was more significant than Ms. Hey had been led to believe and he instructed Ms. Hey to admit Sabrina to the hospital.


So, on April 16, 2005, Sabrina and Ms. Hey were admitted to Virginia Hospital Center. Sabrina was admitted with a failure to thrive diagnosis. After increasing the amount of formula used to supplement Ms. Hey's breast feeding, Sabrina gained weight. On April 19, Ms. Hey was visited by a social worker from the Arlington County Child Protective Services.

On April 20, Ms. Hey and her live-in companion, Kit Slitor, (not the biological father of the baby) were compelled to sign a "Safety Plan" presented to them by the Arlington County CPS social worker. They were informed a refusal to sign would prevent the baby from being discharged. The following day, Ms. Hey and Sabrina were released from the hospital. On the date of release, Sabrina weighed 7 lb. 5 oz.


On April 22, the social worker and one or more home nurses visited the family. The social worker returned the next day, Saturday, April 23; however, Ms. Hey and Mr. Slitor refused her entry, stating they wanted a "time out" while they retained legal counsel (a letter to that effect was handed to the social worker). Over the weekend they sought, and by Monday morning they retained, an attorney who immediately attempted to contact the social worker. (Another attorney who is a friend had attempted to contact the social worker over the weekend.)

Please Help Us Get Our Little Daughter Back
Please Help Us Get Our Little Daughter Back

Newborn Sabrina in Fairfax Hospital

Credit: Kit and Nancy

Copyright: Kit and Nancy

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Words can't even explain how I feel your loss & helplessness. I am a grandmother that is trying to get 2 of my ganddaughters out of Foster Care That should Never have been put there in the first place. The Montgomery County department of children services Case worker Failed to let the Judge know that there were and are Relatives who were willing to take the girls among other issues . I have NOT stopped searching on line for some kind of solutions, Laws that were broken, rights, Lawyers YOU name it Ive done it. I can Not concentrate on anything else. I work on this every single day until I cant see straight anymore. I don't have an attorney or I might be able to ease up a bit & hopefully gain some kind of relief. Im trying to find an attorney that will let me make payments IF I gather up everything they need etc. What Hurts us is that the Courts ALWAYS Believe & Listen to case workers & Never US & once in Foster Care it is VERY Hard to get them back. What is going on with your case now

Posted on 07/25/2008 at 9:07:59 PM

 
This is absolutely horrifying. You did everything that you could do for your daughter, and as a result, she quickly returned to good health! I find it ridiculous that they took her despite that. Are all parents to be rendered unfit if their child comes down with a condition that requires medical attention that the parents seek immediately? That makes no sense whatsoever. My heart goes out to youand your sweet daughter. :(

Posted on 10/16/2007 at 11:10:00 AM

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