Attitude is Everything - Why Nice Guys Lose in the Dating Game

It's not coincidence that the good-looking guys get all the women. You know that. But what you don't know is that they don't get all the women because of their good looks.

Good-looking guys get all the women because they think they're something because of their good looks. They have confidence, self-esteem, and most importantly, attitude.

Yes, attitude is everything.

Attitude allows you to stand tall, speak freely, feel comfortable with your body and your looks, and to take chances. And nine times out of ten, those with attitude will succeed with whatever it is they are attempting to do, simply because they have attitude.

When you approach a woman, she can tell if you've got attitude or not - and if you're clued in, you'll see if she's got attitude or not too.

I'll bet you didn't think it worked both ways! But it does.

Exactly how nervous or anxious you might feel in the presence of a woman you like, is how she feels in the same situation. You just want to hope that you're the guy she's feeling nervous about.

Attitude allows you to have the best shot at getting a girl's number or attention, or going on a date with someone you only just met.

Too many guys think that to get a girl you have to trick her into it. And too many people cash in on that train of thought, writing cheeky books, newsletters, and guides promising to get women to like you, when ultimately, if they do, they do, and if they don't, they don't.

The best thing you can do is to give yourself the greatest possible chance under the circumstances and to do that you need attitude.

To get to the stage where you achieve this "attitude", you will need to do a bit of groundwork first.

It's important that you look your best, so if you prefer to be clean-shaven, make sure you are. If you have a beard or goatee, ensure it's trimmed and neat. Don't aim for the rugged "I've just come out of the jungle" style as very few women go for that. They will simply assume you just couldn't be bothered to shave.