How to Make a Decent Impression on the First Date!

Well, you have got pass the awkward, "What are you doing Friday night?" And she said yes, Now, don't just leave it to chance, if you really want to make a lasting impression, do your homework. (Don't try to make the impression with sex, that just says that your easy) How do you do homework on a person you don't know? That is the not so easy but very important question, isn't it? First, LISTEN to what they say. Men you and I both know that listening isn't always that easy for us, but this is a crucial time. If you want this girl to think that you are the one, then everything they tell you (or don't say) is a clue to what they expect. Women you know what your doing, you don't have to be so cryptic, say what you mean, oh, that would just be to dad gum easy, wouldn't it?

Homework. First of all, unless you picked this person up in a bar. (the absolute worse place to meet a mate) Then you must know someone that they know. Find their best friend, their mother, their brother and ask questions. Start with, favorite food. Favorite types of movies. (woman love chick flicks and guys like action and everybody likes comedy) Make a list of questions so that you don't forget anything. Take your time and make a list that helps you decide if this person is going to meet your expectations. I remember when I was about twenty and I figured out that there was no such thing as a perfect woman. This is as true now as it was then. If you are looking for the perfect mate, be willing to overlook something about them. Back to our homework. What you are trying to find out is what is going to knock this person off guard and loosen them up so that they are willing to share the truth. We all are totally different people when we are trying to impress our potential mates. Why? Because we think that who we really are isn't going to be good enough. Those of you with the two million dollar houses and a new vet in the drive are the exception. You know that you are the greatest thing since sliced bread, but she probably just sees a jerk. Do not come off like you can get anyone you want, it drives off all but the shallowest of girls. Think about it.

Kate Beckinsale is a pretty woman, however, if you on a first date, don't look at any other woman. That's a no-no. NO! No? NO!!!!

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