What a Girl Really Wants

You hear it from men all the time, "I just don't know what women want." Well, I'm here to tell you. As nice as it may be to have a man with a chiseled jaw, and abs of steel, sometimes a persons imperfections are what make them so amazing. Personally, I love tall, scrawny, pasty guys. Regardless, looks honestly may be what first attract you to a person, but they are the least important.

The one thing that guys need to be is confident. You don't have to be so confident that you come off as conceited, but you should be able to talk to a girl without putting yourself down.

To be quite honest, women are often just as self-conscious as you are. One of the best things that a guy to can do impress a girl is simply to talk to her. I'm not suggesting a cheesy pick up line, but simply saying, "Hi." If you do feel the need to use a pick-up line, make it extra funny, and let it be known that you know just how ridiculous it is. After all, what girl doesn't want a man that can make her laugh?

The next question, "Where do I meet a girl?" It's really not that complicated. Of course it's easier to meet someone while you're still in school, you're in a room with anywhere from 20-100 other people your own age, but not everyone is lucky enough to meet the love of their life in a classroom. If you are looking for a relationship the best way to find the girl best for you is by going to places that you like. I know it sounds too easy to be true, but it is.

If you think about it, if you want a girl that likes punk music and wears t-shirts and jeans, does it make sense to go to a club to find her? I'm going to go with no. Why would someone that's into those things go to a club, or a rave? She wouldn't. It's just the same the other way around a club girl isn't very likely to be hanging out at the corner tavern on a Saturday night.

Again, there are always exceptions. Personally, I'm the t-shirt and jeans girl, but I've gone with friends to clubs just for a girls' night out, because that's what they like. Since I don't normally like the guys in a club, I certainly wouldn't look twice at one.