No- and Low-Cost Tips for the Frugal Christmas Gathering

Everyone has their own idea of what constitutes the perfect Christmas. Some folks go all out with lavish gifts and immaculately decorated homes and hosting lovely parties and holiday affairs. And some folks prefer to keep it low key with small, simple gifts from the heart, a nicely decorated tree in the living room corner and relaxed, intimate family gatherings. No matter how you observe the holiday, almost everyone is looking for a way to save some money and avoid the financial burdens the holidays bring so many of us these days.

Our family has gone far more low key on the holidays in recent years but have still found that we can enjoy the occasion and make fond Christmas memories together regardless of our economic status. The following are some suggestions and tips our family has found valuable and have become very grateful for:

Holiday Meal

This is a tradition that has never wavered in my family for as long as I can remember. My Mother's side of the family has always gathered together on Christmas day, forever. Whoever has been generous enough to open their home for the event is the one who cooks the turkey and stuffing, mashed potatoes and gravy. Then, everyone else brings a side dish. This doesn't place the whole cost of the meal or the burden of preparing it on just one person or family. We all take turns hosting from year to year. Thanksgiving is a great time to discuss the meal plan for Christmas and allow everyone a little time to come up with their contribution.

Ask others to bring items such as paper plates, napkins, soda, etc. if they offer. Small items such as these are still fairly cheap and it doesn't place an unusual cost on the one asked to bring it along. Everyone usually wants to participate in the event somehow so take advantage of the offers. Perhaps your Great Uncle James doesn't cook much so maybe he could be the guy to suggest the plates and napkins to. If Sis makes the best apple pies, by all means ask her to bring the dessert.