What Men Want in a Woman

How to Keep the Man You Have or Get the Man You Want

By Stephanie Mitchell, published Jul 11, 2006
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Men really are not that complicated if you really think about it. Even though they may seem that way.They can be very sensitive and put on the act that they are in charge, when in fact, a woman can call the shots if she knows what her man really wants. Men want to be pampered just like women do. They do not want their friends to see them as sensitive as they have an image to uphold. Men may think differently, yet feel the same as we do in a relationship. They may talk about work while we speak more of shopping. 

If you want to keep your man happy, then you need to find out what he really wants. Listen to him and get clues. Some men will get spoiled and expect you to do everything for them. If you started spoiling him in the begining of the relationship, don't expect that he will just change was he is use to. A tidy home and dinner on the table every night is fine. Yet, I have known many of relationships that were just as happy when the house is a mess and dinner is ordered out. The man needs to be happy in the reationship if he is going to stay in it. It doesn't matter if you are the Martha Stewart type. If you are not satisfying your man, he will find what he needs elsewhere. You need to know what makes him tick. 

At the beginning of the relationship, you had to do something that attracted him to you and made him want more. In time, this leveled off because of the settled comfortness between the two of you. Perhaps you may have just forgot how hard you tried to make yourself attractive to your man during that time when you first started dating. Did something change? Did you settle into the relationship just to find out that their were things about him you wish you could change? Who was it that actually changed to begin with or are you both the same people with different views? These are some of the questions to ask yourself when you find things are not as they use to be or that you wish they were. 

Takeaways
  • Change yourself, not your man
  • Make your relationship better and make it last
  • Keep you man or win him back
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