One of the Greatest Legacies You Can Leave: Your Life Story

By Dr. Jamie Y. Marable, published Oct 30, 2007
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At some point in our lives, many of us begin to think about our legacy - something of value that we will pass on to members of our family, organizations and institutions that we hold dear, or society as a whole. The very thought of this can be quite overwhelming, and it's all-too-easy to focus exclusively on tangible items such as money, property or personal possessions. While these are all worthwhile things to consider, there is a legacy that you can leave that will cost you absolutely nothing: your own personal life story.

Whether it appears in the form of written autobiographical accounts, details that you pass down orally to your children and grandchildren about your life, or stories that you share publicly about the obstacles you have overcome, your life story can leave a lasting legacy long after you have taken your last breath on this earth. You may think that if you're not rich or famous, no one will want to know your story. But this couldn't be farther from the truth.

The average adult human being has already lived a best seller. Everyone has interesting (if not complex) family histories, personal struggles and victories, and stories of love lost and found. And while you may not necessarily be famous in the eyes of the media or the masses, there's someone out there who would love to learn more about you.

You do not have to be an accomplished writer or motivational speaker to tell your story. You do not have to have a squeaky-clean, skeleton-free life history (who really does, anyway?). You only need to have a reasonably good memory and a sufficient amount of courage.

The courage to tell one's life story is not always easy to muster. Fear of being too vulnerable and exposing oneself or those one loves can sometimes be crippling. Telling one's story can also be a painful process - at least in the beginning. But what a shame it would be to withhold information about your life that could have possibly saved someone else's, healed a broken heart, inspired someone to aim higher, or helped an organization to move forward and grow.

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Thank you SO much Donna!

Posted on 12/14/2007 at 2:12:21 PM

 
What a wonderful tribute to your mom Charles! Her memory will live on through your writing. Better to take it slow and capture the depth of her life than to rush things. Kudos for working on this!

Posted on 12/14/2007 at 2:12:44 PM

 
Great material, I can see why you're nominated in the PMAs. Lots of meaning in fewer words. Very nice.

Posted on 12/14/2007 at 2:12:57 PM

 
Another gem! I am working on a bio of my mom (not famous) who passed two years ago. Its slow going but you wouldn't believe all the things I never knew about this wonderful woman. Thanks for the inspiration to keep going, knowing that others might think it important to them. Keep 'em coming, Jamie.

Posted on 12/14/2007 at 1:12:07 PM

 
What a great idea D.A.!!!

Posted on 11/17/2007 at 7:11:00 AM

 
This is a wonderful idea. My Mom has been sending "chapters " of her father's life to my son and he is saving it into a book. Thanks for the reminder for them to keep it up!

Posted on 11/16/2007 at 2:11:00 PM

 
Wonderful article. I would lvoe you to tell me your opinion on my reiew of tyler perry films where I address this same issue.

Posted on 11/11/2007 at 11:11:00 PM

 
I have been thinking lately about doing something like this Jamie. Maybe this article will inspire me to get started. Nice job.

Posted on 11/07/2007 at 12:11:00 PM

 
There are so many things I have experienced in my life and so many stories that were past down from generations before me that I have been trying to compile. I want that their legacy would stay forever. I am just glad that my mother and father would always tell us these stories just as the generations befoe them had. I also try to do it with my daughter. I just do not want the stories to become blurry then be forgotten, so I need to write them down now. You wrote a ver excellent article. One that reminded me of my own legacy to leave.

Posted on 11/05/2007 at 10:11:00 PM

 
We gave a journal to each of the Grandma's and asked them to fill it with things they remember about the childhood, how they met Grandpa, what it was like raising the kids, working - anything they felt like writing about. I love reading them :-)

Posted on 11/05/2007 at 6:11:00 PM

 
Very nice article. And so true.

Posted on 11/04/2007 at 12:11:00 AM

 
Thanks for another great article. Something to think about doing asap.

Posted on 11/02/2007 at 5:11:00 PM

 
I love this piece! Great job Jamie!

Posted on 11/02/2007 at 3:11:00 PM

 
For me, this is already in the works. Ever since I found out my father (who I've never met) was murdered, the murderer has been making my life miserable. After that man died, his son took over for him in all aspects, and has trained HIS son to do likewise in case I outlive him. I am working on a book about this, but this person, who appears on TV every week in many countries, is wealthy beyong belief and uses that financial power to stymie me, so I don't know if that book will ever see the light of day.

Posted on 11/01/2007 at 11:11:00 PM

 
What an excellent read!!!....so true!!..instead of on down the road having your great great great grand hearing some things about you that might not be so aqurate..

Posted on 10/31/2007 at 7:10:00 AM

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