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Today's Society and the Effects it Has on Today's Teens

By Manda Spring, published Jul 13, 2006
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It happens to us all who are still stuck with the ‘old fashioned’ morals of times long since past. As we take our children to school or drive to the grocery store there is usually a kid or two that your child knows. It was absolutely amazing to me when I saw a girl come up to my son just the other day to say hello and give some ‘opinions’ about a teacher at their school… her hair was dyed and streaked, she had a cell phone in her hand, acrylic nails were place professionally on her fingers, the language that came from her mouth was snotty and sarcastic not to mention a few vulgar words found their way easing from her lips and she was by herself in the busiest part of town alone. The little girl was in the third grade. It struck me right then and there that children are so much more adultified than my generation and I am only in my twenties. 

After seeing this in elementary school children I decided to see what the older children thought on this subject and what I found opened my eyes to a much larger problem that we all have dismissed as an ‘evolving’ society. I sat down in an interview with an average California High School student who lives in Rocklin, and I must say her responses were deeply focused.
She would rather not be named for reasons that will soon become clear, as her views that will be shared throughout this article belong to, and are embraced by, most teens in the Rocklin/Roseville area. This young lady goes to the new Liberty High and has many friends from Roseville who share in this common way of life and thought. Our two cities are becoming a part of an alarming statistic and most parents don’t even know it yet. 

Parenting: Today's Teens

With such a large number of teens never graduating high school due to criminal behavior it is scary to think what our world will become 20 years from now.

Credit: Dave Sackville

Copyright: Dave Sackville

Did You Know?
7 out of 10 teens whose home is not strict, where rules are a nice idea but none are consistantly enforced, will resort to illegal activity. 4 out of 10 will end up dead before graduation.
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My names ashlee murphy and i am a currently a gr 12 student who struggled through schooling beleiving it was nothing but a social event but am now completing my last two weeks of school i would like to thank you for the use of ur sight it has gave me a deeper insite to my current essay on the identity construction of youth in todays society. As a studens insite i must add that a student can turn to a better lifestyle if the right attention is given. Next year i hope to complete a diploma of Multimedia and a cert 3 in Rural business after that. I have only jsut found my path so if i can do it anyone can.

Posted on 11/04/2007 at 1:11:00 AM

 
I think it's dificult for both parents and teenagers to compromise with each other. At School I see that teens sometimes are not the way they are because they want to but they act and follow the rest. And if this means going out, drinking, having sex, not listening to their parents because they're "lame" or "corny" sure, they'll do it. I keep a pretty good relationship with my parents, of course I'm only 15 but I am more open to the world-meaning so many things I should not know I do know.....anyways...It is also difficult for the parent to keep a good comunication with their children since the kid's don't want to listen. It's a bit contradictory, and ironic once the kid's don't listen and their parents are right. I think there should be a "teen to teen class" where teens get to talk about this with maturity and learn before it's too late. We are more open to listening someone our age than some one older.

Posted on 09/19/2006 at 3:09:00 PM

 
It is a shame to see the kinds of young people this society is raising - or maybe better put, not raising. There are no morals being taught, no work ethics, no respect for others. I actually had a conversation with a child about 6-7 yrs old, who told me that her mother told her it was "okay" to say "bad words" to others - even other adults, especially if they said them to her first. What mother in her right mind would want to teach (and condone) their child to not only disrespect others but worse, disrespect themself. The real problem isn't the children or the teens. The real problem is the parents not wanting to take the time, energy, or effect to do their job as a parent. It's hard! But just like the saying goes...Anything worthwhile is never easy. We as parents were instructed to "train up" our child(ren); if we take the time to "train" them like many of our parents and grandparents trained us, our kids today would be better people. But it's so much easier to just

Posted on 08/28/2006 at 8:08:00 PM

 
I HAVE GREAT GRANDCHILDREN. MOST OF THEM ARE DOING VERY WELL BECAUSE THEY WERE RAISED THAT WAY. MY YOUNGEST SON AND HIS WIFE SEPERATED AND SHE MOVED AWAY WITH THE 2 KIDS. THEY DON'T HAVE MUCH OF A FUTURE EXCEPT WELFARE AND DRUGS LIKE THEIR MOM. ITS SO SAD, BUT IT HAPPENS TOO OFTEN.

Posted on 08/01/2006 at 8:08:00 AM

 
I know a woman who has 4 kids by 3 different guys and has sex with everything that moves.... she is open about doing this solely to get pregnant so she won't have to work.... just sits on her butt to collect disability and welfare.... this is where the problem starts for most kids.

Posted on 07/26/2006 at 2:07:00 PM

 
I hear ya! And what about those "mothers" for lack of a better word who has like 4 or 5 kids by 3-4 different men... again , not teaching responsibility of any kind. Where the hell did all the morals go?

Posted on 07/26/2006 at 8:07:00 AM

 
How about those worthless people who only have kids to collect money that isn't theirs... Yeah thats teaching them something.... good grief, people like that shouldn't even have kids

Posted on 07/26/2006 at 8:07:00 AM

 
Manda- I was at your last book signing here in CA but missed the nevada one.... It was a blast and i look forward to more. Didn't know you wrote articles too!

Posted on 07/23/2006 at 3:07:00 PM

 
yes, I have a lot of kids myself and I am strict with them all, which is why they have good grades, generous personalities, and have never gotten into any trouble outside the home. It makes me sick that some people can (with fewer kids than i have) make excuses as to why they can not enforce rules to give their children boundaries so that we as a society don't have to suffer the crimes of these unparented youth.

Posted on 07/18/2006 at 8:07:00 AM

 
it's sad that parents don't take an active interest in the lives of their children.

Posted on 07/18/2006 at 8:07:00 AM

 
My oldest daughter had the same mind set. She considered school to be a social event and not a learning experience. It never made a nit of difference what I said, she tried to make all the rules by herself. One of my strictest No-No's for her was hitch hiking. I must have told her a hundred times what could happen. She never listened to me, sadly, and was raped and strangled by a serial killer while hitch hiking from Roseville to Auburn, twenty years ago. If just one teenager reads this and takes my warning, maybe she didn't die in vain.

Posted on 07/14/2006 at 11:07:00 AM

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