The Disadvantages of Caring for Adult Children with Learning Disabilities at Home

By Sophie, published Nov 07, 2007
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In a previous article, we looked at some of the advantages of caring for adult children with learning disabilities at home. In this article, we will discuss some of the disadvantages of doing so.

The Disadvantages of Caring for Adult Children with Learning Disabilities at Home: 24 Hour Care

Parents who choose to keep their adult child with learning disabilities at home will have to face the fact that they Will be providing 24 hour care every day. It is not the same as a 9-5pm office job that can be left alone for another day at the end of the duty day. Being a full-time carer for an adult child is an exhausting job that cannot be left at the office. This can put an enormous strain on the parents who provide care for their child and tempers may become short, especially if one parent works full-time and the other stays at home as the sole carer.

The Disadvantages of Caring for Adult Children with Learning Disabilities at Home: Other Children

Caring for children with learning disabilities at home does bring family members into close contact with one another. But what if the parents of their 21 year old Down's Syndrome son also have 15-year-old twins? Usually, in families where there is a sibling with learning disabilities, the parents' attention will focus on caring for them and leaving the other children to fend for themselves. While this type of neglect is not intentional, it can damage the other children and make them resent their sibling or their parents for failing to take such a close interest in their own lives. Parents must really consider all of their children's needs and feelings, rather than focus their attention on their disabled child. If they cannot give equal care and attention to all of their children, this arrangement will not work out as well as it should.

The Disadvantages of Caring for Adult Children with Learning Disabilities at Home: Social Life?

Takeaways
  • Caring for adult children with learning disabilities translates into 24 hour care
  • Parents must also consider the needs of their other children and try to provide equal care
  • It is not easy to enjoy a full social life if you are a full-time carer
Did You Know?
Elderly parents will have a lot of issues to deal with; who will care for their children when they die? Can they still provide adequate care for their child as they age?
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Good article!

Posted on 11/22/2007 at 7:11:00 AM

 
Another fantastic job!

Posted on 11/12/2007 at 4:11:00 PM

 
Nice job with this Sophie.

Posted on 11/11/2007 at 10:11:00 PM

 
Yes, there are many such programmes, Carol. In the UK, many day centres operate 5 days a week and respite is also available for overnight stays, weekends and so on. Sophie

Posted on 11/09/2007 at 3:11:00 AM

 
There are day programs and sheltered work programs that can both be wonderful for the disabled person and give the caretaker respite.

Posted on 11/08/2007 at 7:11:00 PM

 
Great work Sophie. Very helpful information for those in this situation.

Posted on 11/08/2007 at 1:11:00 PM

 
Very good information. This will be very helpful for those who need it.

Posted on 11/07/2007 at 2:11:00 PM

 
I can imagine giving this kind of care being difficult. Great article!

Posted on 11/07/2007 at 1:11:00 PM

 
Well done, nice to see both sides of things!

Posted on 11/07/2007 at 1:11:00 PM

 
Nice job of laying out all of the disadvantages. Another great article!

Posted on 11/07/2007 at 12:11:00 PM

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