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How to End a Friendship

By Jody Morse, published Nov 09, 2007
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There are many reasons to end a friendship. You might not get along with your friend anymore, whether it is because of personal differences or because you simply do not believe in what he or she does anymore. No matter why you may want to end a friendship, there are a number of different things that you should take into consideration when trying to figure out how to end a friendship.

How to End a Friendship Tip #1: Explain Why You Want to End the Friendship

Friendships are a lot like relationships. You probably would not end a relationship without providing your partner with a good reason. The same should hold true for ending a friendship. It is always best to explain why you no longer want to be friends with someone. Losing a good friend can be very devastating, but it is a whole lot worse when you do not know why your friendship has ended. In order to ensure that there are no questions that go left unanswered, it is important to explain why you no longer want to be friends with this person, for whatever reason it may be.

How to End a Friendship Tip #2: Find Out If Your Friend is Willing to Change

Let's pretend that you want to end a friendship because your friend constantly puts you down for your looks. After explaining that this is the reason you no longer want to be friends with this person, your friend may say that he or she can change. There is a good possibility that they are telling you the truth, but there is also a good possibility that they are telling you a lie. No matter what the case is, however, it is important to keep in mind that you will never know if you end the friendship before giving it one last try. If you already know that your friend will not change, then you will probably want to forget giving him or her one last chance before ending the friendship.

How to End a Friendship Tip #3: Cut Off All Contact With Your Ex-Friend

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Very well done. :-)

Posted on 12/24/2007 at 6:12:21 AM

 
Excellent advice! It is very, very difficult to end a close (or other) friendship. You've given out a lot of great suggestions. Thanks! Kim

Posted on 11/26/2007 at 4:11:00 AM

 
This is a very good article. I've ended 2 very close friendships -- one badly and one probably not clean enough. Now I need to re-think this most recent one.

Posted on 11/13/2007 at 2:11:00 PM

 
An excellent discussion on a sensitive topic.

Posted on 11/12/2007 at 6:11:00 PM

 
Donna's use of the word "toxic" hits the nail on the head with my current situation. However, I still find it difficult to have lost a friend.

Posted on 11/12/2007 at 5:11:00 PM

 
Interesting topic!

Posted on 11/12/2007 at 3:11:00 PM

 
Nicely written, Jody!

Posted on 11/12/2007 at 12:11:00 PM

 
This was well-timed. Thanks, Jody! I'm going to take your advice.

Posted on 11/12/2007 at 7:11:00 AM

 
Good information. I'd like to see one on how to know when it is time to end a friendship as well.

Posted on 11/11/2007 at 10:11:00 PM

 
great article on a touchy subject

Posted on 11/11/2007 at 8:11:00 PM

 
Tough situation but I think anyone would appreciate the honesty even if it hurt.

Posted on 11/11/2007 at 7:11:00 PM

 
Toxic... That's a good word. Great advice, Jody. You know as I think on this, sometimes I don't think it's just about the other person. Sometimes two very good people just have different things to offer in friendship too, not to mention different needs. Anyway, great job!

Posted on 11/11/2007 at 6:11:00 PM

 
When I got married, my best friends were still "very" single..it was hard..but we had to call it quits..but years later, we met again..now things are great!!...we are all grown up with similiar lives...Great Article...

Posted on 11/11/2007 at 2:11:00 PM

 
I've never had a problem in ending a toxic relationship -at least since my 20s. It's sad though and especially unnerving when it's over petty stuff or a stupid clash of egos. Veru good article Jody.

Posted on 11/11/2007 at 12:11:00 PM

 
Ending a friendship can seem sad, but it can actually be a very positive thing to do. Unfortunately, my daughter has a friendship that fits into this category and she has yet to end it. Honest and helpful advice here.

Posted on 11/11/2007 at 11:11:00 AM

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