Trying to Get Pregnant Again After a Miscarriage

By Momie Tullottes, published Jan 04, 2008
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Miscarriage can be a devastating event. A woman, and even her partner, could be feeling pain from experiencing one. A woman's pain from a miscarriage can be emotional, physical, or even both. Some couples might even be hesitant to try to get pregnant again after a miscarriage. Here's what you should know about dealing with miscarriages, common misconceptions, and why you may be able to try to get pregnant again after having one.

Coping With Miscarriages

While the emotional and/or physical pain of a miscarriage can be devastating, you don't have to hold onto that pain forever. Stress relief techniques can be very beneficial in this situation.

Having a support network that may include friends and family, as well as doctors and therapists can really help you get through this rough time.

Having a small funeral service or planting a garden in memory of the lost child can help as well, as can naming the lost child.

If you are experiencing emotional side effects due to miscarriage, do not be afraid to ask for help. If you have a friend that you trust, talking it out can be a great help.

You can also seek a therapist or psychiatrist. Doing so does not mean you are crazy. It simply means that you need help dealing with your emotions. The professional may suggest counseling, therapy, or even prescription relief.

Be sure that you understand which treatment is best in your situation and what side effects, if any, might arise. If you take a medication and still plan on getting pregnant, be sure it has no effects on fertility or reproduction and will not interfere with your unborn child, should you get pregnant while on the medication.

Miscarriage Causes

In most cases, the fetus is miscarried by the body because the body recognizes that the fetus would not have developed normally.

Certain operations and medically invasive procedures can also cause a miscarriage, as can taking certain drugs.

Common Misconceptions

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Hi, I have had 2 miscarriages this year one at 7 wks and the second at 10. I am 40, hubby is 47. Did not have any trouble conceiving at all. I have a 11 yr old son. Very devastated. Have an appt to see specialist next month to find out what could be the problem?

Posted on 06/15/2008 at 1:06:10 PM

 
Hi, I have had 2 miscarriages this year one at 7 wks and the second at 10. I am 40, hubby is 47. Did not have any trouble conceiving at all. I have a 11 yr old son. Very devastated. Have an appt to see specialist next month to find out what could be the problem?

Posted on 06/15/2008 at 1:06:58 PM

 
Erica, this link should help ease your concern. (http://sharedjourney.com/articles/blightedovum.html) It states that a blighted ovum, which is the cause of many miscarriages, does not cause infertility and that it is usually not a big deal getting pregnant after having one. Jess, women over 35 are more prone to miscarriage, but can also have a healthy pregnancy. It just may take you some time to get there. Here's some info that might help (http://womenshealth.aetna.com/WH/print?print=y&r=WSIHW000&br=IHW&st=36127&t=36231).

Posted on 06/09/2008 at 10:06:28 AM

 
I am also 37 and went to 10 weeks as well. But the doctor told me I had a blighted ovum miscarriage. I would like to try again but is afraid to because of this loss. I just want some confirmation that it will not happen again

Posted on 05/14/2008 at 4:05:13 PM

 
I am 37 and just lost my first pregnancy to miscarriage at 10 weeks. My husband is 47 and we had been trying to get pregnant for two years. Needless to say, this has been a horrible loss, but we are trying to be positive and move on. Does anyone have any info on the statistics of this happening again due to our combined ages?

Posted on 04/21/2008 at 7:04:28 PM

 
I'm not sure how I missed this article! I'm emailing it to a friend who is going through this right now.

Posted on 04/12/2008 at 2:04:40 PM

 
Hey there Momie, Thanks for writing an article on this subject. I am 40 yrs old, a mother to 3 adult daughters, 12 yrs old son & Nani to my 3 yr old grandson. In August. 07 I miscarried. I didn't know I was pregnant the first 9 weeks. When I did discovered I was pregnant I was nervous, scared & a little confused. Soon that turned to sadness, guilt & painful. I lost the baby when I was almost 11 wks. I felt sad for the baby because it didn't have a chance, I felt guilty because I was hoping it wasn't true when I did find out that I was pregnant, and I was in so much pain because I went thru contractions, dialation & miscarried. The hospital sent me home and it happened there. I was not happy about that, but it had to happen somewhere. My husband was a huge support factor. He is and was my backbone. I am a very faithful person. I was born and raised Catholic and I believe it happened for a reason. I accepted it and moved on. I do think about it often, especially now because my due

Posted on 01/14/2008 at 9:01:16 PM

 
Thoughtful article. I was totally devastated when I had my miscarriage. I got pregnant again after about 4 mos. I have another beautiful 1 1/2 year old now. But even though I have this beautiful child now, I still feel the pain of the child I lost. The child that is lost is always the one you want the most.

Posted on 01/07/2008 at 4:01:17 PM

 
Thanks for sharing everyone. Thanks for the extra info Carol. Very important.

Posted on 01/07/2008 at 6:01:32 AM

 
I had a miscarriage between my two (now adult) sons. I was able to get pregnant with my second son within three months after the miscarriage-so I have always tried to remember that I would not have had my 2nd son-if the miscarriage had not happened-however, I believe that even tho I was only about 3 months along when the miscarriage happened-I was carrying a child-not something less than a person-and even tho it has been 35 years, I am still saddened by the loss of my child. I emphathize with those of you who are now going through the same thing.I'm sure your article will help someone who needs it at this time.

Posted on 01/06/2008 at 10:01:24 PM

 
Very helpful article. Both times my daughter-in-law miscarried, she immediately got pregnant again and gave us two beautiful, healthy granddaughters. One of my daughter's friends said she miscarried four times before she ever had a healthy child. And friends of my parents long ago lost at least six, then had healthy twin boys. Personally, I don't see how anyone can stand the pain and disappointment. My sympathy for all of you have been through it.

Posted on 01/05/2008 at 9:01:30 AM

 
Good information!

Posted on 01/05/2008 at 8:01:05 AM

 
Great article... I've had 6 of these miserable things. I always tried again right away. Not everyone is ready to though.

Posted on 01/05/2008 at 7:01:45 AM

 
Great information, Momie. Miscarriage can be such a devastating loss.

Posted on 01/05/2008 at 7:01:55 AM

 
This is such a sad situation, but your article offers great advice and hopefully encouragement to those who find themselves in this situation! Great article!

Posted on 01/04/2008 at 11:01:23 PM

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