How to Know He Loves You Whether He Says so or Not

By Tiffany Ranae Widdifield, published Nov 30, 2007
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Men can be weird about those words, "I love you". Some will say it and never show it, and others with show it and never say it. Still others will show it, say it and then stop showing it, and then there is the one who never shows it until he says it. It's all so confusing sometimes, and getting past the sweet talk or the lack of it can be nerve racking. Here are some things that I hope will be helpful.

How many times have you heard the words "I'll call you, from the guy you are involved with, only to sit by the phone wondering if something happened to him, or if the phone company shut off your phone on accident. Have you ever picked up the phone to check for a dial tone, confirmed that it had one and then kicked yourself because you just know that when you picked up the phone to check it worked, that he might have called? If you have then congratulations! You are normal. Was his excuse "I forgot" or "I lost track of time"? Yes... that's right ladies... you are still normal, and I am sorry, but I have some bad news for you: As much as you may want him to be, and as much as he's the perfect man when he's with you, he's not in the same place as you are with the relationship.

A man in love will hurdle any obstacle, climb any mountain, journey any path, and do whatever it takes to spend the most possible moments in the company of the girl he loves. He will go to the ends of the earth to make sure you always feel special and darling, you are always on his mind. He doesn't lose track of time. He's watching the clock and hoping you don't think he's too geeky when he calls you a couple of minutes earlier than he said he would. He never misses a call because he's dreaming up excuses to call you early. He doesn't forget dates. Instead he is worried, that you might not be thinking the time with him is a big deal, and that he might be pushing too hard.

Takeaways
  • Men in love dont' forget to call
  • Men in love dont' lose track of time
  • You deserve a man who loves you
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if I wasnt confused before, my mind is racing now. Very good points.

Posted on 03/28/2008 at 9:03:45 PM

 
Thank you so much for making me realise that my boyfriend just says he loves me because im around or after a phone call. You basically summed him right up- mr.sweet talker!! He hardly ever texts me back when he said he would, he also forgets to call me, and he doesnt answer his mobile when i call. He always makes excuses for forgeting- says he works late etc... Thank You for showing me the truth. Carly

Posted on 12/07/2007 at 12:12:00 AM

 
Very well handled topic, Tiffany. When my husband and I were dating, he always called when he said he would and he was really attentive. I loved that! Sophie

Posted on 12/05/2007 at 7:12:00 AM

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