Father's Rights: A Guide to Securing Custody of Your Children

Protecting You and Your Children; How to Be a Successful Parent

It is disturbing to see in today’s society the fighting that goes on when parents separate. 5 out of 10 children will be born to parents who are not married. 6 out of 10 married couples will divorce before the children are 18 years old. With these alarming
 statistics it is not hard to see why children are growing up in single parent homes.


Fighting the Lies
I would love to say that when the parents are no longer co-parenting in the sane home they are at least working together for the children’s sake…but that is simply not true. More often than not, the vindictive and manipulative sides of mothers step over the line for their own vain purposes.

As of the moment when the parents part company nasty little lies begin to surface. The most common against fathers today are the following phrases: “He was abusive to me, I’m afraid for my child”, “He is a dead beat dad, and our children would be better off without him”, and “He hardly helped when we were together, he wouldn’t know anything about raising the children”. Believe it or not this is enough to grant them full custody in most cases.

Fighting these lies is only the first step in obtaining your father’s rights and holding onto them for both the sake of your child and your sanity.

Protecting Your Child
Now, although words are not physically abusive these manipulative fabrications can often lead to severe mental and emotional abuse. When the children hear this harshness against their parent they tend to become scared, worried and confused. Whether it is a part of the sadistic game or not, remains to be seen. This disgusting display of parenting happens every day, and as long judges continue to buy into the deceit spewed from the mouths of vindictive mothers this trend will become even more popular as the years go by.

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I suffer from severe ocd and other mental illness and as hard as the disease is on me, my wife has made it worse 10 fold by threatning divorce every other day and saying things like when we're divorced I'll get full custody and you'll never see your daughter(this makes me very anxious). she has also forced me to work when I'm totally not able to, so she can stay at home and home school our daughter. she has turned our daughter against me too, who now commonly refers to me as idiot. When I frustrate my wife too much, she launches out in attack, screaming, calling me a "mother fucker" in my face. I thought the words for better or worse really meant something - I tell her all the time, "If I had cancer would you be treating me this way"? but I guess because it's a mental disease, it doesn't count. I'll be the first to admit that living with someone with this awefull disease is very difficult but I shoudn't be punished for something that I have no control over. My wife shoud try to he

Posted on 11/27/2008 at 1:11:26 PM

I soon will be helping my son fight for custody of my 2 grandchildren. He lost his wife to suside. Now his ex-mother-inlaw wants to take the kids away from him. I must admit that my son has a drinking problem, & is in therepy for it. It has only been 3mos since his wife died. His wife left a suside note saying that her wish was not for her children to be raised by her mother. The mother has gotton cps involved & now my son can't even see his kids. It is very hard on my part since my husband & I are from a different state. We would be willing to take the children & give them some peace that they so deserve. I must say that the ex-mother-inlaw has a long history of drug use. She as recently was smoking weed around 2mos ago, but claims she now is clean. With cps involved they feel she is best to care for the children. Help!!

Posted on 10/18/2008 at 12:10:01 AM

I am a father going through a very difficult divorce. I have been falsely accused of domestic violence and have been arrested 3 times over the last year and a half. My daughter needs me in her life and it seems as though the system that I believed in is stacked up against me. I have lost approx. 8 months of my daughters life all because of lies. I don't know how to protect myself from all the lies being said. My child is almost three and I can only see this getting worse. I am in a constant state of depression. I am hopeful that my daughter and I will eventually be together but that time can't come soon enough. I have literally been stripped of everything money, home, cars and clothes, but the only thing that I will always have the strength for, is fighting for my daughter and my rights as a father.

Posted on 09/18/2008 at 4:09:15 PM

Thanks Manda!!!! You are awesomne!! I got custody of my kids because of this article!!!!!! Thanks babe!!!

Posted on 08/31/2007 at 4:08:00 PM

i agree dad of 4.... it is nice to have a woman on our side that can guide us through to the end. Thanks for the article!

Posted on 09/03/2006 at 9:09:00 AM

thanks for sticking up for us dads manda.... we really do appreciate it.

Posted on 09/03/2006 at 9:09:00 AM

Thank you for the great advice! I'll try it!

Posted on 08/01/2006 at 12:08:00 PM

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