Should California Make Spanking Illegal?

By Rico P, published Nov 28, 2007
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Can you believe that this country is trying to make spanking illegal? California is trying to pass a law that spanking your child is a criminal act. Are they serious? I guess so because on every news channel this is a hot topic. Whose business is it to interfere with how parents discipline their children? How does a good parent defend themselves against a charge of that nature? Well let's talk about this for a minute. There are many areas that should be considered before such a law should even be bought before legislation.

My mother is a wonderful woman. As a kid I was what you would consider a serious pain in the butt. I was always getting into trouble. Getting into trouble and touching things I wasn't supposed to, got me spanked. I would get spanked where ever I decided to act like a fool at. If the school called and said I was acting up, she my "mother" would come to the school and spank me in front of the whole class. The teachers would thank her and then inform me that I better not make them call her again. Well it happened every now and then but the fact that she disciplined me like that in front of my friends and peers, it made me so mad and eventually I stopped showing my butt in school and in my neighborhood and the spankings stopped.

My dad on the other hand didn't spank me. He had the ability to be able to connect with my chest with a nicely placed blow. I wasn't allowed to cry and I had to stand there with my hand to my side. He never spanked my sister at all. He would just tell her he will spank her and she listens. My mother mainly deals with her. But me, and my brothers had to learn the manly way. And the best and most effective way that I learned was the only thing that made me listen. Not out of fear, but out of embarrassment, was the jab to the chest. Spanking didn't work for me as much as the punch in the chest from my dad did. It's not a hard punch but it's the fact that I got punched in public and had to stand there with my hands at my side and suck it up.

Did You Know?
It's nobodies business but the parents to spank their kids. But it is all our responsibility to make sure its not abuse.
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Great story. You know I live here in Cali, and I can't believe some of our rights as parents that have been turned around and or taken from us. I for one never really spanked or hit my kids, but a long time ago, I have to admit I believe now looking back I verbally abused my daughter at times. I have since she was a child apologized to her for it, but I don't think I can modify her feelings of what inpact it made on her. That being said, I believe there are limits. Spanking is one thing, but as Alicia says: a little spanking is okay, but beating is another. It is unfortunate that some parents have taken it to another level. Good writing.

Posted on 01/27/2008 at 12:01:14 AM

 
You make some excellent points here. I agree the government needs to stay out of it.

Posted on 01/16/2008 at 7:01:33 PM

 
Good article, the government needs to get out of everyone's business!

Posted on 01/16/2008 at 6:01:57 PM

 
great article and great topic for debate. I come from a family of seven, like you, my parents chose to discipline us with spankings and personally i think it worked well for them. The didn't overuse this method, they used it to get their point across, and we learned quick. My four brothers and sisters and I are all very well rounded individuals, none of us have abusive tendancies and all 5 of us have a fantastic relationship with our parents. We also learned a lot about 'crime and punishment', we knew what would happen if we got in trouble and it helped us to stay out of trouble. I think the gov't has no business interferring with parental discipline, honestly, they have much more important issues they should be dealing with. Its the parents choice, if it becomes abuse, then the gov't can get involved.

Posted on 01/15/2008 at 2:01:32 PM

 
I don't think kids should get a beating, but a little spanking here and there does the trick.

Posted on 01/14/2008 at 11:01:55 AM

 
it's tragic that this even has to be an issue, and yet so many parents are abusive these days. it's getting more difficult to see where that line blurs.

Posted on 01/13/2008 at 2:01:27 PM

 
great article

Posted on 01/13/2008 at 2:01:56 PM

 
I think that the government would be overstepping its boundaries if it were to outlaw spanking. Good parents who legitimately spank (as opposed to beat) their children as punishment would be caught and punished, while those who actually DO beat their children would get away with it. Beatings won't stop just because the government says no spanking allowed.

Posted on 01/13/2008 at 11:01:50 AM

 
I don't think spanking is necessary. However I also don't think it is abuse unless it is hard enough to leave a mark. Psychological and emotional abuse can be far more lasting in my opinion. I'm not an expert though.

Posted on 01/04/2008 at 9:01:23 AM

 
A great article for debate and something to really consider! Thanks.

Posted on 12/19/2007 at 7:12:29 AM

 
It is the parents choice, not the government. When this turns into abuse, then there is a problem. Good article. Well written.

Posted on 12/17/2007 at 2:12:08 PM

 
The government should not interfere in this case, and you made some good points about police brutality...etc.

Posted on 12/11/2007 at 6:12:59 PM

 
Growing up in a home where abuse was more common than loving discipline, I really struggled with where my parenting philosophy would rest. I believe love and discipline should NEVER be separated. But it sadly is, a lot of the time. Obviously, I don't want children abused, but I also do not want the government telling me how to raise my children.

Posted on 12/10/2007 at 3:12:19 PM

 
Let me re phrase that Rico- Spanking isnt good (for an adult to hit a child that is) but your article is good! Hope there was no confusion in my last post.

Posted on 12/06/2007 at 4:12:00 AM

 
Not good!

Posted on 12/06/2007 at 4:12:00 AM

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