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Kids Who Are Afraid of the Dark - How to Help Ease Your Child's Fears

By Kay Ray, published Dec 03, 2007
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Most adults can remember a time during childhood when they were afraid of the dark, and this isn't out of the ordinary. Very young kids aren't usually afraid of the dark because they haven't been exposed to stories and television programs about monsters and other things that go bump in the night, but older kids are often affected. If your kids are afraid of the dark, you can help them overcome this fear with the following advice and tips from a mother of five kids who at one time were all afraid of the dark.

Paint it Light


A dark room isn't nearly as dark if it's painted or papered in lighter colors. Give your kids who are afraid of the dark a room that's light in color instead of a room that's dark, dreary, and potentially scary. Even a dark paneled room can be painted lighter colors when the surface is primed, and it can also be covered in wallpaper. No matter what the walls are comprised of, they can be lightened and brightened to help give your kids a sense of wellbeing in their personal space for sleeping, playing, and relaxing.

Room Décor


Choose room décor carefully when your kids are afraid of the dark. For example, your little boy might love dragons, and your little girl might love Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs during the day, but the same characters they love during the day can become intimidating or even scary at night. In a child's mind, the dragons that appeared friendly during the day might spark the imagination into creating scary fire-breathing creatures that just might be hiding under the bed. The story of Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs included a wicked witch, and a child's imagination can run wild once the lights go out.

Sources of Comfort


Kids Who Are Afraid of the Dark - How to Help Ease Your Child's Fears

Some parents worry that the kids won't fall asleep if they're allowed to take stuffed animals and dolls to bed, but they'll drift off to sleep when they're really tired.

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That was a good idea Amber! You're a creative thinker!

Posted on 12/07/2007 at 7:12:00 AM

 
I always used to tell myself that there was a monster under my bed, but he was a friendly monster. I believed he would hide under there and eat anything that tried to get me. I remember my best friend thought I was crazy, but I loved my monster :)

Posted on 12/07/2007 at 12:12:00 AM

 
A second nightlight is a small price to pay to help a child feel comfortable. Great solutions!

Posted on 12/05/2007 at 10:12:00 PM

 
my husband still doesn't like a completely dark room...guess his mom didn't know these tips..;)

Posted on 12/05/2007 at 9:12:00 PM

 
Another great article on helping kids.

Posted on 12/05/2007 at 7:12:00 PM

 
Super ideas, one and all!

Posted on 12/05/2007 at 4:12:00 PM

 
Lovely,great tips, although my kids have never had any problem, but then they no I am a light sleeper and always near at hand.

Posted on 12/05/2007 at 8:12:00 AM

 
Great article.

Posted on 12/04/2007 at 4:12:00 PM

 
good article

Posted on 12/04/2007 at 9:12:00 AM

 
I have an admission to make. I still use a nightlight! As an adult I'm not comfortable sleeping in complete darkness. Thanks for all of your comments!

Posted on 12/04/2007 at 9:12:00 AM

 
I totally can relate to this article!!..you know even as old as I am ..I still have a fear of the dark! I sometimes leave the tv on..but I hate to do that because even though my husband doesn't complain, I hate to disturb him..My niece had the same problem and her mother purchased the "glow in the dark" stars for the ceiling in her room..she loves it!!

Posted on 12/04/2007 at 9:12:00 AM

 
Great article! I remember being afraid of the dark when I was a kid, but it was usually due to moving alot.

Posted on 12/04/2007 at 8:12:00 AM

 
Great suggestions - I had one that kept wanting a nightlight so we went with an aquarium - worked well :-)

Posted on 12/03/2007 at 10:12:00 PM

 
i remember when i had a nightlight. sigh

Posted on 12/03/2007 at 6:12:00 PM

 
Interesting

Posted on 12/03/2007 at 6:12:00 PM

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