Should You Allow Your Child to Drink While Underage?

By Jody Morse, published Dec 05, 2007
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As a parent, one of the decisions that you will ultimately be faced with is whether or not you should let your child drink alcohol before he or she has turned 21. The issue of allowing a child to consume alcohol before they have reached the legal drinking age is an issue that has always been debated. This article discusses some of the things that you should take into consideration before allowing your children to drink alcohol before the age of 21.

Would a Certain Holidays or Occasions Allow the Child to Drink?

While there are many parents who do not believe in underage drinking, there are some who find it to be acceptable during the time of a holiday. Some parents, for example, may only allow their child to have a drink of wine on Christmas Eve or New Year's Eve. Others may say that it is okay for the child to have a drink during their graduation party, as long as he or she will not be drinking and driving. Although allowing your child to drink all the time shouldn't be acceptable, certain occasions may allow for a child to have a drink.

Could Allowing the Child to Drink Prevent Future Mistakes?

All too often, families love one of their loved ones due to drinking and driving or alcohol poisoning. In some cases, allowing your child to drink early on can help prevent mistakes that may be made in the future. For example, when children are exposed to beer at a younger age, they are often found more likely to be repulsed by the taste of beer once they have reached adulthood. It is also important to keep in mind that many teenagers or even young college students who have not yet reached 21 find drinking to be a thrill. If they are allowed a drink every once and awhile by their parents, it is likely that the thrill of drinking may not exist for them.

Will the Child Want to Drive After Consuming Alcohol?

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Not to mention the legal ramifications if other parents know that you have allowed your child to imbibe. It should always be up to the individual parents, unfortunately some parents get in quite a tizzy over what another parent might allow. Great article.

Posted on 12/18/2007 at 6:12:55 AM

 
On special occasions and hoildays I buy Sparklin Apple Cider for the minors. It's my favorite also since I don't drink. An interesting article. A very good write.

Posted on 12/17/2007 at 10:12:54 PM

 
I'm really against underage drinking. There are reasons why they made this law. Great article!

Posted on 12/17/2007 at 9:12:25 PM

 
Great article. I went to a bachelorette party a few weeks ago and the bride to be's sister was only 20. We were all drinking, but she didn't even though she probably could have and her mom wouldn't have said anything. I was really impressed that she didn't. It is a touchy subject, though. My parents never let me drink and I don't think I would let my kids either.

Posted on 12/17/2007 at 11:12:26 AM

 
Thanks for all of the comments! I don't know how I feel about it. I guess it depends on the parents and the children. I do know that I tasted beer when I was child (not sure if my father allowed me to or if I just did it on my own) and I absolutely hate beer now. So, perhaps, it does have some benefits.

Posted on 12/11/2007 at 10:12:54 PM

 
Your article was excellent, as always. I don't think parents should allow children to drink for any reason. Although, keep in mind that I, myself don't drink and never have even tried it and it is my hope that I can pass that example on to my children. I don't think it's necessary to drink in order to have fun. I have plenty of fun (and even act crazy sometimes) without it. I think parents should instead teach children to let loose without needing alcohol to do so. :-) --- That's my personal choice, though. I would never judge what others do, as that is their choice.

Posted on 12/11/2007 at 10:12:01 AM

 
I agree with you Jody. I drank my first beer at home. Well it was a six pack. I wasn't drunk because I remember it all. I was buzzin pretty good. Now I can't stand the smell of it lol. I do like my glass of wine and of course my home made egg nog on Christmas :)

Posted on 12/10/2007 at 3:12:05 PM

 
Great points on a tough topic. Well done!

Posted on 12/09/2007 at 11:12:38 PM

 
Great points!

Posted on 12/08/2007 at 4:12:00 AM

 
It is a tough issue. However, it does not really matter because the legal age to drink is set and if you allow even your own child to drink, you open yourself up to criminal prosecution, but also if something catastophic happens such as a death where drinking is directly to blame, then you will not be able to shake that guilt. Great article!

Posted on 12/07/2007 at 7:12:00 PM

 
In Europe, where kids are allowed wine at a young age, there are far less cases of alcoholism. The binge drinking in college here in the U.S. is a direct result of how foolishly parents treat the issue of drinking. Great topic!

Posted on 12/07/2007 at 1:12:00 PM

 
Excellent points.

Posted on 12/07/2007 at 12:12:00 PM

 
good points, excellently written-- great job

Posted on 12/06/2007 at 2:12:00 PM

 
Nicely written. My husband and I are still discussing this, and thankfully, we have years before it's an issue for us.

Posted on 12/06/2007 at 6:12:00 AM

 
You bring up a lot of good points.

Posted on 12/06/2007 at 12:12:00 AM

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