How to Cope with Your Spouse's Gambling Addiction

Your Spouse's Gambling Addiction and You

By Samantha V., published Dec 12, 2007
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Gambling is a serious problem, it's an addiction. Coping with a spouse who has a gambling problem, even if your spouse is willing to admit they have a problem, can be extremely difficult, and heartbreaking. It takes a lot of love, support, and courage to help your spouse with a gambling problem. And while you're trying to help support and encourage your spouse who has the problem, you have to be able to cope with their problem yourself. A gambling addiction can, and often does, affect every member of the household, and also will affect every aspect of your relationship with your spouse. If you aren't aware of your spouse's gambling problem, then finding out suddenly can feel like a horrible betrayal by your spouse of your trust and love.

Takeaways
  • Gambling addiction is a serious problem which can wreak havoc on a marriage.
  • Kindness can go a long way towards helping your spouse recover from gambling addiction.
  • Gambling addiction can feel like a complete betrayal by your spouse with the problem.
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Thats why your probably not married Hannah. Having a problem like that is tough, but if your that centered around your own life then you will end up like the lady in the flannel above, alone.

Posted on 01/04/2008 at 12:01:30 PM

 
Sorry, I know you mean well, however you described a good case of co-dependency. It is not the spouse's job to deal with the addiction, or help them recover from it. The only thing the spouse should be doing is dealing with how it is affecting them, and their children, and deciding whether it is wise to stay or not to stay. This is often dependent upon how much the addict is willing to recover from his addiction. Actually, I wouldn't encourage anyone to live with the addict, untill he/she is in recovery for quite awhile. Quite often addicts have to learn to be self-sufficient before they can live with anyone!

Posted on 12/13/2007 at 11:12:58 PM

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