Truth About Dowry Law and Its Misuse

Study Report on Indian Men, How They Are Harassed Under Legal Terrorism

This is a Report based on 5 years Research and Study on dowry Prohibition act, its use and misuse.This Reasearch conducted by our own Experts of MyNation for Save Indian Society,and not funded by any gender biased organisations. We studied 1500 Plus Families, these are feed backs
 from them and from the reports published by media.

What is IPC-498a ?

Cognizable - The accused can be arrested and jailed without warrant or investigation
Non-Bailable - The accused must appear in the court to request bail
Non-Compoundable - The complaint cannot be withdrawn by the petitioner

The accused, on a woman's one complaint, are considered guilty until proven innocent, and the burden is on the accused to prove their innocence in the courts. It is even more torturous that old ailing parents too are arrested prior to investigation. Is this not violation of Human Rights of Indian citizen?

When an FIR (First Information Report) under IPC section 498A (anti-dowry law) is registered by a woman, the accused - the husband and his old parents, brothers, sisters, relatives - are arrested and jailed without investigation. The Supreme Court of India has ruled several times that arrest should be an exception, and not compulsory. Why is there no penalty for disobeying the Supreme Court's orders? Is it not mental cruelty to subject a person to arrest without investigation or reasonable cause? Police are subjected to gender sensitization training wherein they are forced to take women's complaint and arrest the accused even when they find the case to be fabricated. And in case the police do not react on a woman's false complaint, the women groups are given unnecessary powers to take legal action against the officer-in-charge of the police station.

As per our Study, we found out that, it is a custom in India to give support to bride in the form of gold and valuables to support her future life with her husband, as husband take home the bride's Father's financial burden.

 
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dear rajesh, I have gone through the same phase what you are going through.what i feel is that first you both get councelled and if it still does not work then before she puts you in trouble send her to parents place for till she realizes the facts and comes back to you.If she does not then let her be happy at her parents place and you also try to be happy....Dont give her divorce.

Posted on 05/17/2009 at 8:05:30 PM

It is very true that the women of India are using 498a as a"BRAMASTRA" against their husbands.It is going to ruin the future generation as already women have started misusing this law.It needs an ammendment before it is too late. we need to fight to avoid harrasment by wives to their husbands.

Posted on 05/17/2009 at 8:05:58 PM

I m a sufferer in the hands of my Wife. I m an engineer in Mech. Engg. n got married to a softwre engineer Girl. Since the marriage she is stressing me to do whatever she likes and i followed her so as to that she feels to be home after marriage. But my father in law has been since involved to get her i mean to say her mind is totally hijacked by her father. He just tell her to and asked her to not to compromise with me. Its a tragedy happened in my life. Now she is threatening me to get tusseled me in the Dowry case. But in contrary we even don take the gifts usually offered in marriage. I m in very much trouble. Any one can help let me the laws how can i protect me and my parents.

Posted on 02/28/2009 at 11:02:45 PM

As an Indian being born and raised in South Africa, it pains me to hear about your sad stories of your marriage. Yes India was voted the most corrupt country in the world. Indian females from India are starting to lose their respect for their husbands. There are many Indian from India who work in Sout Africa and I find their wives to be very rude ladies.You should marry South African Indian girls. They are faithfull and hard working.

Posted on 02/20/2009 at 3:02:31 AM

My name is Deepak. Resident of Pune - maharashtra. I am diploma in mechanial engineer. I got married with my uncles ( Mama ) daughter Neelam in the year 2003. She is 9th class failed girl. It was a forcefull marriage. We got engaged before six years. during that period i tryed to communicate with her many times but she was not at all interested to talk to me. Her parants told us that everything will be alright after marriage. I knew that she doesnt like me & there is a lot of difference in our understanding & maturity level. Even though i got married considering the future will be bright. She stayed with us almost for 2-3 months. during her stay with us she never gave me respect as a husband. She always used to talk in orogunt langauge. I gave her enough time to change her attitude but in vain. Whenever i tried to talk to her she took different meaning & told her parants in negative words. Her parants started abusing & fighting with us without investing. She went her home & started liv

Posted on 02/19/2009 at 10:02:35 PM

Priya and Richa like girls have stupid mind and egoistic problem and i think this ego problem creats trouble in family life. a lady never ready to compromise with her husband's family. she never image her inlaw family as her family members. miss priya and richa, if u realy need freedom then why u like to marry. marry is mean of boundation and it call in hindi as bandhan so first delete ur ego from ur mind then try to understand that why the problem creat so much trouble. why graduates lady use 498a act against all family members even she never live wd family?. so its just ego problem.

Posted on 10/23/2008 at 11:10:06 AM

Richa / Priya if girls want total freedom, forgetting thier domestic responsibilities, and they think husband should not ask them where they go(with whm and where) they should not marry. they want husband just to pay their bills, they do no thave any responsibility towards husband and his home. coz they know,when to walk out, when they caught red handed and unable to adjust wih husband family coz they know is in favor of them they will get custody of child and maintanence from husband, even husband caught her sleeping with her lover. thats india.

Posted on 10/01/2008 at 6:10:29 AM

Yes its really funny,coz on one side you females want a reservation in each n every field and on the other side you want to move with the males side by side. this is an answer to Richaji

Posted on 09/30/2008 at 11:09:41 PM

Yes its really funny,coz on one side you females want a reservation in each n every field and on the other side you want to move with the males side by side.

Posted on 09/30/2008 at 11:09:31 PM

I am in qatar and i have divorced my wife 11 Months before. Now she is torturing my parents and sisters by using this dirty law. They are asking for the huge money and pressursing me to resign my job and come to india. Everybody knows in my society that she was not living with my family but people are blind. Police is correpted and greedy. I never demand for any thing as this was a love marriage against her parents.. but my parents make it arrange marriage for the reputation of the family. I never drink a glass of water in my susral. I had everything in my home.I am really shameful of being an national of this kind of country who make this law. If you see the real india, you will find whole judiciary is corrupt police system is corrupted, these laws are meant to make money by police, judiciary and girl parents who have opened social brothels for earning money. There are some real victim of the dowry also but they are not getting the benifit of this law. I really feel ashammed of bein

Posted on 09/26/2008 at 1:09:01 PM

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